Many boys chat well with girls online, but when it comes to dating offline, they are in a mess, causing long-term emotional management online to be ruined by the details of the date. Today the editor will take you through how to leave a good impression on a girl on a first date.
1. Take the initiative to invite girls, don’t be coy
You can say this:
"XX movie is now in theaters, and the ratings are pretty high. How about we go watch it together? Let's have a meal after watching it."
"This restaurant is very popular recently, my buddy said It’s not bad. Let’s try it another day.”
“What do you like to eat? I like it too. There is a restaurant on XX Street that has great food. Let’s go and eat together?”
You can also ask a girl to do a little favor for you when you are getting along, and you can use this as an excuse to treat the girl to dinner as a thank you afterwards.
Error demonstration: Haha! I like eating XX very much. Let’s eat together some other time, please!
Friendly reminder: At this time, you two are still in the stage of getting to know each other deeply. But don't say this in the tone of a friend, otherwise those arrogant girls will think like this: "Who are you? The earth will not spin without you? Why will I definitely go if you invite me?" This will make A girl misunderstands you and thinks she can't afford to eat. So, don’t play with fire...
2. Try to make an appointment at noon or afternoon on the weekend
On the week Meeting girls in the afternoon will make them feel rushed.
Firstly, the makeup they put on carefully in the morning has already been spent in the evening;
Secondly, they have other time arrangements after get off work, such as work dinners or accompanying clients or working overtime. After a tiring day, I don’t have time for you to eat or anything;
Thirdly, she will think that this will affect her work status the next day, especially those girls who have regular morning and evening habits.
At this time, they just want to go home early, take a hot shower, and then comfortably enter the land of gentleness.
However...you still want to ask them out for dinner?
It is easy for girls to have the illusion that "they are so happy because they are dating you" during the holidays. After all, they all There is a little mentality of "you can sleep in and have plenty of rest time to do whatever you want at any time".
Then noon or afternoon? In fact, both are fine, because they can have time to put on a little makeup and choose a set of exquisite clothes.
Assuming it is in the morning, then the girl will most likely reject you without even thinking about it, and you know the reason.
Even if you don’t refuse, then the girl will just put on a hasty makeup and come to you, and... she will come to you with resentment of "this person really doesn’t know how to choose the time", or with a grumpy attitude. I want to make a date with you in bedmeeting.
The question is, why not make a date in the evening?
We are talking about the arrangement of the first date, not the follow-up date that you are already familiar with. After all, you two know each other at that time. Not long, just a few times in life, and a few chats on WeChat. The other person doesn’t know you very well. If you make a date at night, it will make the girl feel insecure, and it may also foreshadow the relationship during this period. flow eastwards.
3. The location should be "far away from the company and close to home"
Why should it be far away from the company?
On a first date, before the relationship is confirmed (or even after the relationship between a man and a woman is confirmed), girls generally don’t want their colleagues or bosses to know too much about their private lives. The further away they are, the smaller the chance of encountering them.
As for being close to home, it is easier to understand. Mainly because they are familiar with those places, and also because of safety issues when going out. This can make them feel more relaxed and comfortable, and it is also convenient for them to send girls back. Home.
After deciding on the location, which restaurant is better to choose? If it is too high-end, both parties will be restrained. No matter how delicious the snacks at the roadside stalls are, they are only suitable for future dates.
Therefore, we only need to choose a restaurant with a better environment, which is above average, so that it not only has the atmosphere but also shows your generosity, and the price is easy to accept.
Of course, you can prepare a multiple-choice question in advance and give it to the girls, allowing them to choose the location of their choice. This will also give the other party a good impression of being a gentleman and polite.
Also, after confirming the restaurant, try to reserve a seat in advance to avoid queuing and having the two of you stare at the wait, which is a bit embarrassing.
4. When eating, choose the food that ranks high in the target location
The problem of the century follows office workers' "morning breakfast" After "What to eat for lunch and dinner", "What to eat for date" appeared again.
After making a difficult choice of places to visit, before ordering, ask the girl what her taboos are and if there is anything she wants to eat. If the girl doesn’t have any, it is recommended to choose the top-ranked food in the target area.
Recommended: Japanese food, Western food
Not recommended: hot pot, buffet, noodle shop, barbecue (on the premise of avoiding girls’ embarrassment, you will understand the reasons yourself)
When ordering, try to avoid foods that are embarrassing for both of you, such as pig's trotters, chicken feet, chicken wings, etc., as well as foods that are delicious but not very nutritious, such as stinky tofu, stinky salmon, etc. If you don’t know what to order, you might as well ask the waiter to recommend some local dishes.
Friendly reminder: After eating and drinking, you can go shopping in nearby shops in the name of "eating after meals", or find a quiet place to relax and chat, which will make it easier for you to See a girl clearlyTrue thoughts. Of course, you can’t miss sending a girl home. On the way, the girl might even hint to you that you can go on a date next time, so you have to seize the opportunity!
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