The girl I like has a very aloof personality. Her chats are always lukewarm, and her attitude cannot be seen at all. What should you do if you want to chase a girl like this? Here are some common techniques for chasing aloof girls:
1. Refuse to kneel and lick her
Whether she is a cold girl or a proactive girl, if you want to catch her, kneeling and licking her will definitely not work. Therefore, we should not be attentive or show excessive enthusiasm for nothing. What you need to do is, when you go out with her, she is cold, then you are colder than her, but the coldness is only to her, and to other girls around her, you must be able to talk and laugh, let her feel you His attitude towards her is different from other girls.
2. Domineering
Girls like to be led, so they generally prefer boys who are more mature and a little domineering, while those who are childish and immature are less attractive. They wouldn't even give it a chance to take a look. Women like to conquer powerful boys, because this can make them feel the desire and pleasure of conquest.
Of course, being bossy here does not mean that you are a chauvinist, nor does it mean that you should not consider her thoughts at any time and make your own decisions. For example, when you are dating, you decide everything, not at all. Consider her thoughts. If you do this, she will feel that you are too controlling and will resent you. Therefore, while we are overbearing, we also need to have mature thoughts. For example, she does not go to eat because she wants to be lazy and sleep. You force her to get up and take her to eat. This is the right thing to do.
3. The right amount of care at the right time
For aloof girls, just the right amount at the right time is enough. Too much care will only turn into a burden, and will only make her feel that it is wrong to accept your care for no reason. If she really has no feelings for you, your care will become redundant and become an interruption. It also made her feel bored.
Therefore, you don’t need to care too much, you just need to do it just right, such as: reminding you to eat breakfast in the morning, reminding you to take medicine when you are sick, things she accidentally mentioned, although these are just some seemingly inconspicuous things. It's a small thing, but if you can stick with him, she will feel that you may be more reliable than other men, and one day she will be moved by you.
4. Avoid misunderstandings
Because of their natural personality, aloof girls will have a good impression of people who understand them. Therefore, if there is a misunderstanding, aloof girls will Generally, they will not take the initiative to explain, because in their hearts, people who understand will naturally understand and will not misunderstand her, and those who misunderstand them are not worthy of association and do not understand them.
If there is a misunderstanding, all you need to do is give trust. Don’t ask for too much before you know the answer.She explains something, understands the causes and consequences before drawing a conclusion.
5. A Little Romance
As long as she is a girl, no matter how cold she behaves, in her heart she is I definitely still like romance. If you can have a little romance once in a while, it will definitely make her day. At the same time, it can also show that you are willing to spend time and energy for her, and that you are willing to pay for her. You consider her, and you also care about and value her.
Of course, you need to consider what kind of romance aloof girls like. They generally don’t like big scenes or luxurious outdoor scenes, which will make them feel uncomfortable. What they need is something simple, something that can prove that you care and prepare it carefully. It can be a meal or a song for her. It doesn’t have to be too complicated, something simple can make them happy.
❋ Tags: