If you want to chase a girl, just chatting on WeChat will definitely not work. You must ask her out on a date. But many boys don’t know how to ask girls out for dinner. They want to speak directly but are afraid of being rejected. In fact, there are tricks to inviting a girl out for dinner through WeChat. Let’s talk about how to ask a girl out for dinner on WeChat.
How to ask a girl out for dinner on WeChat
1. Girls you are familiar with in real life
For girls who are already familiar with each other in real life, and there is a social relationship between the two parties. My suggestion is to invite girls directly. Some friends may be wondering, will direct invitation lead to a decrease in success rate?
In fact, for girls who are already familiar with each other, the other party's impression of you has been solidified, and the form of your relationship has basically been finalized. It is meaningless to think about changing her attitude and liking you through chatting on WeChat. Think about it, if you can't attract her in reality, will she believe the fancy things you chat about online? After all, what makes girls like you is you as a person, not your chatting methods and words.
For example, "My friend just opened a hot pot restaurant recently. I know you like Chongqing hot pot. We can try it together when we are free." If the other party agrees immediately, then the invitation can be further finalized, "Then it's up to you, I'm available at any time." Strike while the iron is hot and fix the time.
Note that girls who are already familiar with invitations must use their personal status as the reason for invitations. Some people may invite girls as friends or for work reasons, but in fact it is meaningless to do so. When you get along with her, you should treat her like a man with a woman. After all, you are not just trying to be friends or colleagues.
2. Introduce the girls you know
For the girls you introduce to, they are usually introduced by relatives and friends. They already have connections and recommendations from relatives and friends, and there is a certain degree of social contact. relation. Girls feel very secure, and the intermediary can help you put in good words. As long as the other party is sincere and does not dislike you, the success rate of the invitation is very high.
1) Understand the other party's preferences
If you want to attack him, you must first sharpen his weapon. First understand the other person's preferences, and then find a way to find a reason to invite them. Basically, you will get twice the result with half the effort. When chatting, you can talk about the preferences of both parties, and then select suitable dating items.
2) Make innuendo and test your attitude
Even if you are a girl introduced by others, you still need to make the other person have a good impression of you. If the other person has no interest in you, even if you invite him, it won't mean much. It's a waste of time and money. You can test the other party's attitude through invitations.
For example, "Seeing that you are under a lot of pressure at work recently, I willI happened to have two talk show tickets on my head, so we could go together if they were empty. "If the other party finds an excuse to shirk, it means they are basically not interested in you, so don't force the invitation. If the other party agrees immediately, proceed to the next step of the invitation.
3) Further confirm the invitation
As soon as the girl readily agrees to your invitation, you can proceed with the specific invitation. For example, "I'm free this weekend. How about you?"
In actual practice, the girl is approaching. Before a date, when you really decide to commit, you may be unable to make an appointment or not want to go to the date. Therefore, you should test the other person's attitude before the date to prevent others from showing off.
3 .Girls you met online and by chatting up. It is much more difficult to invite girls you met online and by chatting up. The reason is that there is no social relationship between the two parties and there is no middleman to recommend. Girls generally feel safe. Insufficient. In addition, the girl you randomly match or chat with may not have romantic needs.
For girls who have no social relationship, the invitation process is the same as the above process, but the difficulty lies in attracting and warming up. , a passer-by has no reason to participate in your invitation, unless the other person has a good impression of you, I will not describe in detail here
What to say on WeChat when asking a girl to eat?
1. Pretend to be pitiful
When you are chatting with a girl, you can say that you are very hungry now , but I want to chat with you. If the girl here also likes you, she will agree to accompany you.
2. Say it directly
In fact, with girls. When making contact, there is no need to use any tricks. You can also tell the girl directly that you have found a delicious restaurant and you want to share the good things with her. If the girl likes you, she will come out. </ p>
3. Understand the girl’s feelings
If a girl loves hot pot, then when you want to treat her to dinner, just say that you want to treat her to hot pot. How can she bear it? What about temptation?
How to improve the success rate of inviting girls to dinner on WeChat
1. Learn to show yourself h3>
When boys chat with girls, girls generally have a very low sense of security. What boys need to do is to learn to show off their strengths on WeChat, gain the girls’ trust in you, and at the same time, dissuade the girls. Doubts in your heart. Boys must take advantage of this and use their high value to attract girls to you. When girls are completely dependent on you, you are not far away from success.
2. Chatting creates mood swings
Using WeChat to chat with the girl you love, boys must learn to create mood swings. Girls are very emotional and pay great attention to feelings. Boys must learn to use their emotions to persuade girls to meet you. Use WeChat to chat with girls. As long as a boy can arouse the girl's emotions, he can use any method to arouse the girl's curiosity about you and the urge to date you. This also means that you have mostly succeeded.
3. Watch the opportunity before inviting out
After going through the above two stages, boys can try to invite girls when chatting. At the beginning, the boy first makes a vague invitation, that is, he doesn't mention the specific date and place to see if the girl will agree to the invitation. For example, a boy can ask a girl: "I heard that the newly released XX movie is very good. Can we make a date when we have time?" After a girl hears your invitation, she will immediately agree if she is not repelled. In this case, the boy can feel free to formally invite you.
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