It is normal to be blocked when chasing girls. After all, this may also be a problem for girls. It is impossible for us to understand the thoughts of every girl. But if you are always blocked by girls, then the problem is a bit big. So why do some boys always get blocked by girls?
1. Frequent invitations
Are you there? Let's go out for dinner tonight. "
" Are you free tomorrow? Let's go see a movie together. "
"Do you have any plans for Saturday? I'll take you to Happy Valley. "< /p>
Dating is a necessary step to advance a relationship. If two people never date after getting acquainted, then they will always be netizens and never become lovers.
Only when you go from online chat to offline and see the other person in real life can your relationship with a girl become real.
However, although dating is a necessary part of relationship development, it is not that more is better. Nothing is too much, and the same goes for dating. Moderate dating is a wonderful thing, but if you date girls frequently, your relationship may develop in the opposite direction.
Therefore, if a boy frequently invites girls out on dates, you will become an insignificant person in the eyes of the girl. She will find that dating you is such a tiring thing, so the girl will I will start to control myself and reduce contact with you.
Of course, this is not the most terrifying thing. The most terrifying thing is that at this time, boys often feel that girls don’t like him and want to ignore him, and then make many weird losses, such as in order to "save" girls. , make appointments more frequently, such as directly asking her why she ignores him.
Boys are so pretentious, and girls can’t bear it anymore and have no choice but to block them!
2. Casual Flirting
The girl asked: "What are you doing?"
The boy replied: "I'm thinking of you~"
The girl asked: "I heard about you Are you sick?"
The boy responded: "Yeah, I miss you so much that I'm lovesick."
When girls take the initiative to talk to boys, some guys like to come over suddenly. These two sentences seemed to be particularly "sultry", thinking that by doing so they would appear to be particularly flirtatious and not a boring and dull man.
In fact, if your relationship is not particularly close, you will not be able to "spur" her by doing this. It will only appear that you are frivolous, impolite, and offend girls!
Especially if you and the girl have not known each other for a long time and you suddenly say flirtatious words to her while you are still getting to know each other, to the girl, you are just a horny and obscene man who likes to flirt with women and have sex with her mobile phone..
In short, flirting words must be used with caution! The skills to flirt with girls also depend on the dish. How to do it and how to say it depends on the girl’s personality, the degree of your relationship, and the current situation. environment.
3. Asking questions
"How many boyfriends have you had?"
"What memorable things did you and your ex-boyfriend do?"
This situation is particularly common when two people first get to know each other. They are not familiar with each other yet, and the boy is particularly concerned about this girl and wants to The faster you get to know her, the more you will ask the girl this and that, like a curious baby.
A girl doesn’t want to tell you directly, because it will appear that she has no depth, especially when some of the questions involve her privacy. How could she just tell you so casually? But if you don't say anything, the boys will either chase you and ask questions, or they will look disappointed, thinking that the girls are not sincere.
This makes the girl very confused. If she is confused and confused, she will simply block you to save trouble.
Don’t ask too many questions when two people first get to know each other. You don’t know her, and she doesn’t know you. No one is so heartless as to reveal his or her background to someone who doesn’t know her well enough.
4. Treat girls as emotional trash cans
"It's so bad. I stepped on a dog again when I went out today. Shit."
"Hey, I feel like the whole world is against me. It's obviously not my fault and everyone blames me."
Some people take girls for themselves. An emotional trash can that shares negative emotions. Every time I chat with a girl, I always complain to her about my misfortune, as if the whole world is against me.
Originally, a girl chatted with you to be happy, but in the end, all you brought to her was some negative energy, which made her mood bad. And if a girl wants to fall in love with a boy, she definitely wants the boy to be an excellent and valuable person. Your complaining behavior is undoubtedly telling her that you are not good enough and that you are a loser.
Therefore, why should a girl continue to chat with you? After blocking you, the whole world becomes a lot brighter.
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