I don’t know since when, bad men have become a compliment, but honest men are increasingly disliked by women. This is why many honest men treat women sincerely, but in the end they cannot resist the flirtation of bad men. Let’s analyze why bad men are more popular in the eyes of women than honest men?
1. Bad men understand women’s passive psychology
Speaking of passive psychology, this is not new, but honest people just can’t grasp the essence. Honest people always think that if she is passive, then I should be more proactive. There's nothing wrong with the idea, but the approach isn't right.
Do honest men think that if they take the initiative to chat with a woman, invite her to dinner and watch a movie, and then give her some small gifts, this is considered taking the initiative? Isn't this the standard for men chasing women? The approach of bad men on this issue is worth learning. It is necessary to understand the passive psychology of women. It is not necessary to take the initiative, but to give full play to the initiative. To put it bluntly, it means being thick-skinned and eating enough.
It doesn’t matter if a woman is reserved and aloof, if you stalk her, it doesn’t matter if she is not good at words, if you talk about her love, she will flirt with you. Cold water doesn't matter, you will be confident. As long as your cheekiness avoids the labels of a common man and a greasy man, you will leave her with a good impression of being bold, frank, and sincere.
I’m just afraid that if she gives you a bad look, you’ll want to back off, be choked and unable to speak, and apologize again and again, exposing your true face as a low-level, incompetent, and unsteady-willed person. It's normal for her to be stubborn about you in the beginning, but if you want to break through her passive mentality as quickly as possible, this is the most effective way. You definitely don't have the patience to spend a year and a half working slowly and doing fine work.
At least bad men can’t afford to wait. As for whether the shameless trick doesn’t work, just look at the results of these people’s battles.
2. Bad men take advantage of women’s passive psychology
When it comes to women’s compensation psychology, it is actually easy to understand. The traits of serious girls are basically the same. They have had strict upbringing since they were young, and their concepts of men and women are relatively conservative. They should behave like a lady, giving people a feeling of being well-behaved and clever. But in fact, her heart has been severely suppressed and restrained.
The more serious a girl is, the more wild she is. She has been imprisoned in rules and regulations since she was a child. She has been seeking compensation in her heart, fantasizing about her rebellious self, and longing for a free way of life. At this time, once a casual and free-spirited man appears, her heart will be ready to move. The debauchery of bad men makes her feel fresh and exciting, out of reach yet within reach. Driven by the compensatory psychology, all tutoring and self-cultivation are put on the sidelines. What she wants is this feeling.
Even if you can’t marry such a wild man in the end, it’s worth falling in love with a bad man. As she talks, she will fall deeper and deeper into the trap, and begin to look forward to the prodigal son turning around. As long as the prodigal son is willing to turn around, she will absolutely devote herself to him.
A bad man does not have the essential requirement of "honesty", but he has many qualities to fill the vacancy in a woman's heart. Therefore, it is easy for a bad man to start a relationship. As for getting married, it depends on whether he can Wash your hands in a golden basin.
Although an honest man possesses the basic item of "honesty", he has no other options to compensate for a woman's psychological shortcomings. He can't even start a relationship, so how can he talk about marriage.
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