Girls are born with much richer emotions than boys, so they often have relatively large mood swings and even cry outright because of some trivial things. So as a boy, when a girl cries next to you, how should you comfort her? Below, I will teach you 5 ways to make her happy again.
1. Stabilize her emotions
If a girl cries, it must be because she has She has a lot of mood swings and is in an unstable state. If we want to coax her well at this time, the first thing we must do is to stabilize her mood. The best way to stabilize a girl's mood is to express your concern for her with words that can touch her. For example:
(1) Girls cry because of illness: When you are ill, I feel that the world is lifeless. You should get well soon!
(2) The girl cried because of worries: Don’t mobile phones have transfer functions? You should also use transfer to transfer all the unhappiness and dissatisfaction. If it doesn’t work, just transfer it to me. I hope to see you happy. That’s me. The greatest wish.
(3) Girls cry because of sadness: Too many comforting words are useless. I will stay by your side like this to let you know that no matter what, I will still be by your side. Share everything you have.
(4) Girls cry because of anger: To be honest, you are quite cute when you are angry. I know you must be jealous again. I strongly declare here that the only person I love is you.
2. Be a listener
When a girl’s emotions are stabilized, the girl will develop feelings for you. She must have a sense of trust, and she will definitely share with you some of the reasons why she lost control of her emotions. I hope you can comfort her. At this time, don't interrupt her, be a good listener, stay with her, and listen to her tell her what's on her mind. Of course, the girl may not be willing to speak out. At this time, you need to guide the girl to talk based on her recent living situation.
3. Treat her like a little girl
There is a little girl living in every girl’s heart. Although she is no longer a child, she still hopes in her heart that you will treat her like a little girl. Treat her like a little girl. You should give her love and care. Don't try to comfort her with "Baby, be good, stop crying." Girls are not fools. She can feel it if you don't care. It is necessary to be more patient when coaxing girls. of.
4. Transfer girls’ emotions
In the above articles, we have been comforting girls’ emotions. , after the girl's mood stabilizes, you will be needed to divert the girl's negative emotions and let her get over a sad thing. Words may be able to help the girl.Shifting but taking action will help a girl to relax from one thing faster, so we can ask her to go shopping, go to the park or watch a movie, etc. to do things she is interested in.
5. Take more care in life
No matter why girls cry, it may be because they are There is a lack of care and love in life, and a lack of security. In the eyes of girls, the essence of security is trust, which makes her confident in the future of the two of them.
, giving girls the idea of ??dependence and dependence. A sense of security is what every girl wants to have. Even a strong-looking woman has a fragile side. , so it is necessary to give girls a sense of security! For example, no matter what happens in life or what trouble she encounters, you can always face it calmly. , will not appear panicked, and can always solve the problem as soon as possible, making her feel very comfortable and giving her a sense of dependability and importance.