When you are not 100% sure that a girl likes you, do not confess casually, otherwise this confession may become the reason for her to reject you. So how do you tell if a girl has a crush on you?
1. Physical contact
When there are many people crossing the road, grab a girl’s arm (if You dare not hold hands), hold hands and walk.
If a girl strongly resists and expresses her desire to leave by herself, then it is obvious that she does not like her at all.
Because it has been rationalized, there are many people, and she is afraid that she will not be safe.
If you are a little reserved and resist, it can only mean that you don’t hate you.
If you are shy and bow your head, then congratulations.
The two of them wait side by side at the red light. When they start walking, or when they enter the restaurant door, give the girl a hand on her back and between her shoulders.
If girls quickly avoid your touch or even jump away, then you can basically give up.
If the reaction is normal, then at least it means that you are not disgusted.
If you are more bold, you can try to support your waist. Of course, this also depends on the girl’s subsequent reaction after the previous action. You have to learn to observe.
Close to girls’ low-security but non-taboo areas
For example, hair and ears.
It’s okay, I’ll just take a photo with my phone.” That means she has no interest or affection for you.
If she is obedient and does not move, it means that she has a good impression of you.
No favorable impression.
If you come over, it means you have entered the safe zone and have a basic good impression.
If you don’t have the courage to try the first method, there is a second method.
2. Subconscious testing
If you two face each other, drink milk tea with a straw on a small table .
You can unconsciously push your cup towards the girl. If the girl does not withdraw the cup, it means that she is not disgusted with your approach.
If she withdraws, it means she is keeping a distance from you.
Similarly, when walking, if you approach her and she slowly hides, and the two of you are almost in the ditch, it means that she is not interested in you; if your approach creates a lot of unconsciousness between the two of you. touch, then congratulations, you have a basic good impression.
3. Observe the composition of girls’ responses during the chat
For example, the following conversation scene:
You: What are you doing?
A. She: Nothing (response is very bad)
B. She: At work (response is average)
C. She: I am at work, so tired (present tense + status description: good response)
D. Her: I am at work, so tired, what about you (present tense + status + open topic: The response is very good)
Of course, there is another possibility that you don’t reply, or you reply after a long time, which is obviously because you don’t want to chat with you.
Both A and B are not interested in you and do not want to chat with you, which is equivalent to not having a good impression of you.
In short, I can’t answer this and have to think about how to continue. Basically, I just don’t want to chat with you.
C and D are interested in you and want to chat with you, and their levels are different.
When girls are willing to share their current status, this is female thinking, which is a behavioral pattern in a state of high security, originating from the sharing between girls in caves in ancient times.
If a girl asks you a question in return, it is obvious that she is interested in and has a good impression of you.
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