If you want to successfully catch the girl you like, the most important thing is to learn how to use it properly. Don’t expose your neediness too much and make the other party feel disgusted. Don’t show that you haven’t become your best friend at all. So how should you figure out how to pursue the girl you like?
1. Allow time to get to know each other
What are the three major misconceptions in life? Wait? The phone is vibrating, someone knocks on the door, she likes me. When the third illusion occurs, it is easy to confess impulsively.
When chasing a girl, you must never make an impulsive decision based on a momentary feeling without any emotional basis.
On the one hand, because you don’t understand the other person, the enthusiasm may disappear quickly. On the other hand, think about it from the other person's perspective. If they don't understand you, they will be full of insecurity.
Therefore, whether you chat more or create more opportunities for offline contact, you must set aside time to get to know each other so that the other party can truly feel your thoughts and actions, so as to build a full image.
2. Observe the other party’s feedback
We can understand if boys are more direct, but girls rarely do. Such a carefree and direct expression. Therefore, before expressing your own ideas, you must learn to observe the other party's feedback.
For example, every time you send out an invitation, people come, and occasionally you will explain the reason if you are not available and make an appointment for the next time.
Or when chatting, I never deliberately delay the time. I always reply as soon as I have time. I will also explain the reason for not replying in time.
When chatting, I will never give you a perfunctory reply.
Similar to these behaviors, at least it means that the girl is not disgusted with you, and you still have a chance.
But if the girl has already made it obvious that she is unreasonable when talking and refuses invitations, there is no need for you to persist.
3. The relationship must be promoted
On the contrary, when the relationship should be promoted, you must seize the opportunity. , staying still will make the good impression you created before gradually dissipate.
For example, at the beginning, it may just be a chat on WeChat, likes in the circle of friends, and when you feel that you have a certain understanding of each other, you can then go out for dinner and chat face to face.
After being in contact for a while, I feel that the conversation is very congenial, the interests are also very similar, and we feel very comfortable together, then we can make an appointment to go out to play together on the weekend, or invite our respective friends to have a party. class.
In short, as long as you can be sure that the girl has a crush on you, you can actually create a relationship.Started working.
4. Know how to give in at the right time
When chasing girls, boys should not be the permanent leader. You must also learn to give in and give girls space to express themselves. At the same time, this is also an opportunity to observe how much girls like you.
For example, don’t chat with others every day whether you have something to say or not. If you talk like this every day, your parents will find you annoying.
Don’t think that you have to take full responsibility for dating. In fact, it’s quite tiring, right? So why not just let the girl take charge for once?
Let her experience being the leader. Be refreshing and hard-working, and she will cherish your efforts even more.
Everything has two sides, and giving in at the right time is not necessarily a bad thing sometimes.
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