She was too young at that time and did not know that all the gifts given by fate had already been marked in secret. ——Zweig
Many boys nowadays know nothing about the techniques to chase girls. They only know that they can chase girls if they are handsome and rich. However, these nonsense It is actually useless for most people to chase girls.
To chase a girl, you need to break through her emotional weakness first, make her start to rely on you, and establish an emotional bond with you, and then you will find that you are already a couple.
1. Sense of independence
Although the big tree faces wind and rain, it has always stood tall in the sky and the earth. between. It roots deep into the soil and can stand alone on the earth without being attached to anything.
The ivy is different. No matter how green and dazzling it is, it must depend on others to survive. If the thing it is attached to is gone, it will not be able to continue to survive.
If you want to completely chase a girl, don’t turn her into a tree, but turn her into a creeper.
Given the choice, most girls are not willing to become a tree. Although trees are powerful and enviable, they are all forced to be strong.
If possible, they would like to have their own support like an ivy.
If you can keep her captive with love, she will not have to be independent from the world and compete hard with others every day. If you hold up an umbrella for her and protect her from all the wind and rain, you will become her biggest reliance in this life.
Different people have different arrangements for their lives, and people in different living conditions also have completely different attitudes towards life.
An independent girl will not regard a man as everything to her. In their concept, whether it is love or marriage, it is just a part of their life.
And a girl who is not independent, or even loses the ability to be independent for a long time, has a completely different attitude towards life.
When a girl relies on a man, she will regard him as everything to her.
She feels at ease when you are here. Without you, it would be difficult for her to continue her life.
You have become the key to her survival, and naturally she will never be able to leave you.
2. Social circle
People live in the human world and have to deal with people every day. It is a necessity of life and a need of the soul.
A girl will not feel lonely if she has her own circle of friends.
She can chat with friends for a while when she is bored, or just ask outCome and go shopping.
If you don’t have time to accompany her, she will find friends to accompany you.
In her mind, your existence is just a part of her life. Even if one day she does not have you, she can still live a good life.
But if one day she no longer has her own circle of friends, and all she has contact with every day is her children and you, then she will have nothing but you and her children.
In this situation, you are a very crucial existence in her life.
She will never be able to leave you, because once she leaves you, she will feel as if she has been abandoned by the whole world.
This is like a person who has 10 friends. If she loses one of them, although she will be sad, she will not feel that she cannot live.
But if she only has one friend, she will regard this friend as her whole life and cherish it even more, because losing her is equivalent to losing everything.
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