Every woman has a little temper, and it is our responsibility as men to coax her little temper. However, many men are not good at coaxing. They like to reason with their wives when they are angry, and in the end, things change. The more stiff you are, how should you coax your wife when she is angry?
The correct approach at this time is to remain silent when the girl remains silent, giving the other party time to cool down emotionally. When the other person breaks the silence and talks to you again, you have already taken a certain amount of initiative for yourself. At this time, if you discuss it with the other party, you will obviously have more frameworks! Then use the following methods to coax her.
1. Apologize
Whether you know that you are wrong in your own place or you have done something wrong Whatever happened, don't worry about it, just admit your mistake and try to get your wife's forgiveness.
First, pull out the mistakes you think have occurred and the mistakes that have happened before and criticize them one by one. Maybe you didn't quite hit the mark, but at any rate you have a high level of ideological awareness and a good foundation, which makes the girl feel that you value her. It even gave her a feeling of "earning"! For example:
"It's my fault, dear, I shouldn't have spoken to you loudly, especially this morning when I said good morning to you, I bought you breakfast. I even forgot to say good night to you last night. Just calm down, okay?"
2 , Diversion of the daughter-in-law's attention
When the daughter-in-law is angry because of a quarrel, it is difficult to solve the problem if she keeps dwelling on the quarrel itself, so the problem is directly transferred to the direction of caring about the other person's body. No one If you object to others caring about your body, your anger will naturally flow a lot. For example:
"Baby, I was wrong, please don't be angry, okay? When you are angry, you will easily get stomachache. Seeing you feel uncomfortable makes me feel so sad. I bought you yogurt. , for the sake of your health, can you forgive me?"
When you shift your attention to the impact of the quarrel on the other person's "body", you are actually paying attention to the other person's feelings.
3. Give her a gift
Of course, you can also buy your wife a gift she likes. , or cook her a meal that he particularly likes to eat. Use your sincere attitude and practical actions to admit your mistakes and impress your wife. Faced with this situation, most girls will definitely not be able to refuse. Create a very romantic apology atmosphere for your daughter-in-law. At this time, no matter what anger your daughter-in-law has, it will disappear.
4. Say nice things
Girls like to hear nice things, and they will still be happy even if they know that you are telling lies. Just like girls often askWho is prettier between me and so-and-so? It is very likely that in her heart, so-and-so is prettier than herself, but she hopes to hear your answer that she is good-looking and she is the prettiest in your heart. And the so-called coaxing women is nothing more than saying nice things. So praise her more and her mood will naturally improve.
5. If you are not soft, then be "hard"
When your wife is angry, she will not say anything to you. Listen, when she doesn't look at anything you do, the best way is to just go up and hug her or give her a kiss without saying anything. When a girl is angry, she will definitely struggle to refuse. In this case, the man should show off his arrogant attitude and hug her tightly without letting go. After a while, she will soften her heart.
Love is a very wonderful thing, but now many people are the kind of people who don’t know how to cherish it when they get it, and then start to regret after losing it, regretting that they didn’t treat the person they loved well in the first place. Then start looking for some ways to restore love. Feelings are very fragile, so you must know how to cherish them.
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