Some boys are sure to chase after girls, and some boys always fail to chase girls because they don’t know some taboos about chasing girls. Below, the editor will take you to understand the top ten taboos for boys to chase girls. If you want to get rid of them, Single boys must not step on the trap.
1. Kneeling and licking
The biggest taboo in pursuing a girl is kneeling and licking, although pursuing a girl is good for her That's right, but blindly treating her well without asking for anything in return would be a big problem. Girls may like dogs, but they will never like men who kneel and lick like dogs. Even if you are lucky, you can catch this girl by kneeling and licking her. When you are together, you can't tell when you will fall in love with this girl.
Therefore, when chasing girls, you must know how to guide the other party to give and create attraction.
2. Confessing too early
It is not impossible to confess to a girl. Confessing at the right time is still very conducive to breaking through the relationship, but if you are too impatient, in Confessing your love too early before your relationship with a girl reaches that stage will only expose your neediness and get the good guy card.
After all, confession is just a way to confirm the relationship. If you want the girl to accept your confession, you must at least make the girl feel that your relationship has reached that point. Therefore, premature confession is certainly not advisable.
3. Like to use money to solve problems
If you are pursuing a girl with the purpose of getting along with her for a long time, then don’t spend money to solve problems.
I believe that when you are chasing girls, you have also discovered that there are many girls. When you are not familiar with her, if you want to give her a gift, she will usually refuse politely or find a way to compensate you. , after all, she doesn’t want you to think she is materialistic.
Think again about those women who like to call you husband with a smile as long as you give them gifts and red envelopes. Although her heart is with you now, what if someone spends more money for her? Do you think she will still Will you call me husband?
Any love you get by spending money is not called love, it is just a transaction. Girls all understand this. Therefore, when she wants to really get along with you, you try to pursue her with money, which will only make her feel that you don't respect her.
4. Love to show off
Having ability and capital are details that can add points when chasing girls. But if you don’t know how to show off, but are eager to let girls know, this behavior is tantamount to showing off. In the eyes of girls, it will not only lose points, but also be labeled as having low emotional intelligence.
5. Caring too much about what a girl says
Caring too much about what a girl says will only make the girl feel that you already value her enough. Naturally, there is no need to work hard to make you care about her.
In other words:
Now she can fly you in the sky like a kite, she calls you when she wants to see you, but when she doesn’t want to see you, she doesn’t even bother to reply when you send her a message.
6. Not paying attention to self-investment
Both men and women are ordinary people and visual animals. The first impression is very important. As the saying goes, you need to be hard-working. When chasing girls, pay attention to yourself. The investment is much greater than the other party's investment. And a lot of self-investment is actually not difficult to do.
7. Too narrow-minded
As a man, you must be generous and don’t take money too seriously. Some people think that letting women spend money for themselves shows how awesome they are. , I think this is wrong. Men should take responsibility in this society and provide value to others. They are the real men, so that they can win the heart of women.
8. No opinion
Women don’t like men who have no ideas or opinions. She will feel like this It is not conducive for men to survive in the world. Even if they like you very much, if a woman has no opinion of her own, she will instantly lose interest in you! Therefore, if you have no opinion of your own and listen to women in everything, take the initiative between you. If power is given to women, they will only be eliminated by women.
9. Chasing too closely
Never chase a girl too closely. Just imagine that a little fly following you around all day will be unbearable, not to mention you are so big. Can a girl stand it alone?
10. Stingy
In front of women, even if you are usually stingy, it still saves money. But you must also learn to be generous. Some people think that men and women are equal in love, and girls should also spend money on boys. In fact, this is wrong to some extent. At least in today's society, men are believed to have responsibilities, including treating guests to dinner. Only if you are generous and decent can you win the heart of the girl you like.
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