I believe that most boys know that dating is the key step to upgrade a relationship, but I have to say that it is really difficult to date girls nowadays. They obviously feel that they have a good conversation, but every time they ask for an invitation, they either get no response or are rejected. . What is the reason for this situation?
Why can’t I date a girl who I feel like I have a good conversation with?
1. Girls don’t like you yet
Ambiguity is also a very important thing. If you and The girl is just having a good conversation, she hasn't even reached the stage of being ambiguous, she hasn't even become friends, and all you can think about is asking her out, which is definitely unrealistic.
Some boys may say that they have been with a girl for a long time and it feels very ambiguous, but it is still okay to chat every time but not to date them out.
In this case, people just won’t come out to see you. What are you waiting for if you don’t delete it? As a boy, you should know something.
2. You are not important enough in her heart
I feel that a girl who has a good conversation is dating her If you don’t come out, there is another possibility that the girl is really busy. For example:
When you and her are in different places, it’s a lot of trouble to go out, but in her heart, you haven’t arrived yet. That amount, people may think, is not necessary.
But this situation is far from nothing, what’s the difference? She will always explain to you what she is busy with, which at least makes you feel at ease.
What you need to do at this stage is not to offend her first, and then find ways to attract her and make her think about you. Showcase your strengths appropriately and post them in your circle of friends. Do what she likes and let her see your shining points, those are the two purposes.
3. Resistance to being alone
The reason why there is resistance is simply that the relationship is not in place. , unfamiliar, let you be alone with an unfamiliar person, don't you feel a little uncomfortable?
Don't take our own thinking for granted, don't be afraid that she will bring her best friend Come out, don’t be afraid that she will call a large group of people to come out. Just think, if she comes out after all, we still have a chance. It’s better than others who are too lazy to go out, right?
How many people do you care about her? We just need to show ourselves well, look familiar, and gain a sense of presence. It doesn't matter if there are thousands of troops next to him or whatnot, as long as we can meet him, it's better than anything else.
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