Chasing girls really requires some skills, because just chatting with girls has countless minefields. If you accidentally step on them, you can easily chat to death.
Today, we will take you to understand the minefields of chatting with girls. After understanding them, you must pay attention to avoid them.
1. The minefield of greeting girls
1. "Hello, beauty."
"Are you there, beauty?"
In chat software, I believe 99.99% of people who chat to death have used this phrase. Although this sentence seems polite, it is also normal. way of communication.
But you are dead on "beauty". Using the word "beauty" on chat software will make girls think you are vulgar and frivolous. It gives girls the illusion that the person opposite must be a big man who picks his feet.
The correct greeting title can be "girl, girl" or no title.
Chat software is not a real social place. It does not require too many cumbersome communication links. It saves people from going to social places, sorting out personal images, etc., allowing people to get straight to the topic.
Therefore, here you need to be interesting and neat, and quickly get the girl's point.
2. "What's your name? Baby"
"What are you doing?"
"Where are you"
Chatting In the early stage, exposing the sense of need is no longer a minefield, but a minefield!
"What's your name" forces you to exchange information, "What are you doing" to forcefully inquire about your status, and "where are you" is more direct, exactly like Say to a girl, "If you are close, will you make an appointment?"
I believe that after saying hello, your second sentence will not be able to escape these three sentences. If you really want to ask her what her name is, why not change the question to "What is a better way to call you?"
3. "I saw your selfie, you are so beautiful!"
"I feel like your profile picture is really classy."
Many brothers can't wait to praise her after meeting the girl they like. Indeed, your vision is not wrong, but it is also wrong!
Even you can see that she is good, can’t others see it?
Or the girl thinks you are too good Directly explicit, but still too demanding;
Even girls who don’t care about this detail are already used to this kind of praise, so you are just repeating what other boys have done, which is meaningless.
2. Minefields when upgrading relationships
1. "I feel like you like listening to European and American songs." "
"Yes"
"Then which celebrity do you usually listen to?"
"Everything is fine"
......
This kind of rhythm that makes it impossible to continue the conversation is mostly due to the minefield of forceful flirtation. If girls respond indifferently to the topic, you should change the topic.
Having too much desire to chat and still following boring topics is not a good decision.
2. "What do you do?"
"Planning and operations"
"It's a good job, where is the company?"
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“We are not that familiar, are we?”
……..
Household registration-style chat, although everyone knows it is a minefield, but here Just to emphasize.
In addition to revealing your sense of need here, another point is that you behave like the boring boys she has chatted with, boring!
3. "Your eyes are like a sika deer, watery."
"Little sister, little sister, can I flirt with you?"
"You The skirt you wore today looks so nice, just like the curtains at my grandma’s house.”
“Are you tired? You’ve been running around in my heart all day!”
Being addicted to TikTok. , earthy love words, and the words taught by some low-end instructors to attract students are really harmful.
If a young lady on the street said this to you, would you feel elated? It just feels weird, right?
One day when you passed by a subway station, you saw a sentence on a billboard. , it makes sense. "Illiterate people will use Internet hot words to cover themselves up." Now do you know where you have stepped on the wrong side?
Frequent use of Internet hot words will only make your The girl thinks you have no substance.
3. Minefields when displaying value
1. "I usually only drink Evian. , Nongfu Spring and the like, I can’t get used to it.”
“I usually like to read financial books, and drink coffee if I have nothing to do”
Classmate, I drink Evian every day, may I ask you Is it the self-confidence of having an annual salary of one million?
Read financial books and at least give me an example. Tell me about "The Wealth of Nations" to make the girl feel convinced. Is the coffee instant from Nestlé?
< p> Adapted a sentence from "League of Legends": Invisible pretense is the most deadly!2. "I usually like to drive around in my Land Rover to see where there are cheap food."< /p>
“During my holidays, I usually go to Thailand. It’s the kind of thing where you can just go and get a visa on arrival. It’s quite cheap.”
Brother, Land Rover consumes a lot of gas and the postage is expensive.Once you get in, why did you save that money? Also, a visa on arrival is more expensive than a general tourist visa, and it is difficult to queue up.
This wave of operations shows that what you call "high value" is actually very low.
3. “I like girls without makeup”
“But I like makeup”
“Actually, I think you are pretty good too, you look good with makeup !”
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The inconsistency is to cater to a common problem that girls make.
In the perception of girls, boys who have no requirements have no standards and bottom lines → the reason for this phenomenon is because the boys have few choices → boys with few choices are losers, this is a logic game.
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