Nowadays, when a friend introduces you to a blind date girl, it is not like before: one aunt and eight aunts sit together, and everyone has a meal together. The first meeting may end without even speaking a word. Nowadays, men and women who go on a blind date usually chat through WeChat. If the conversation is suitable, the two of them can make an appointment to meet in private. So how do you arrange the first date with your blind date?
1. Confirm the date
Maybe you think you have a good chat and want to meet the girl on the blind date, but you also have to ask the girl what she means first. Are you willing to date you? So first confirm with the girl on WeChat whether you agree to face-to-face contact. If the girl thinks it's too early, then she may feel that you are not close to each other yet, so just continue to contact and understand. If the girl agrees, then you can start arranging the date and talk about it in detail.
2. Date time
It is best to set the first date with your date between three and four in the afternoon Around 11:00, give girls time to take a nap and put on makeup, and allow yourself to be in the most energetic state. In this way, when you meet each other, you will face each other in the best state, and it will be easier to develop a good impression.
Pay attention to the fact that boys should not dress too exaggeratedly when going on a date. Just look clean and tidy. Be careful not to meet in a sweaty situation. Let's meet and chat casually, but don't be timid.
3. Date location
Try to choose a first date location that is not too far from the girl. place, otherwise it would take a long time for her to come here, and she would complain on the way to the date. The specific date location also depends on the characteristics of the girl. For example, girls who are homey generally like to be quiet and there are few people. If it is summer, you can go to a quiet cafe. You can also consider going to a reading library, but it's not easy to communicate. (The key point is that it is quiet and air-conditioned.) If you are a girl who likes sports, you can choose a more interactive date location, such as escape rooms, ice paddling, and amusement parks.
As for the date items, don’t let the girls choose everything. It’s best if you can arrange them in advance. Of course, if you want to ask girls for their opinions before making a decision, it is best to have several options for girls to choose from.
4. Dating Transition
If you have almost enough contact with girls on blind dates, if you feel that The next idea is to go on a date, such as having a meal together after dinner time, or sitting in a dessert shop after dinner, and the two of you can chat again, or go to a movie together or something. Then, after the date, it is best to send the girl home and deliver her to the door. It shows that you have a beginning and an end, and it also shows that you care and value the girl.
In fact, the starting point of dating a girl on a blind date is to hope that the other party can have fun, so before dating, you need to level up the other party, and pay attention to propriety in what you say and do, so that you can have a perfect ending to the first date.
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