Falling in love is something that requires a lot of skills. If you want to have a good relationship and have a long-term relationship, you must understand some laws related to love. So what are the laws related to feelings?
1. If a person really wants to, then he will hide his past very well. So, don’t ask too many questions, and don’t guess whether the other person is telling the truth about the past - at least you are very happy now, right?
2. In a relationship, the person who pays the most, sacrifices the most, and endures the most unequal treatment is often the person who cares about the relationship the most and treats the other half best. Therefore, the more affectionate people are, the more aggrieved they are, and the more caring people are, the more they give in. As for why it is so unfair, Article 3 will tell you.
3. You cherish a relationship, you care about this person, you are very good to this person, it doesn't make any sense. The only thing that can continue to make this person treat you well is that you have high value and can attract this person. The feelings of "like" and "love you" are so cheap that anyone who has feelings for this person can do it.
4. If your parents are clearly opposed to your relationship, and they even hesitate to have a relationship with you because of this person, then there is a high probability that this person is really not suitable for you - your parents are experienced people after all, and they look at it from a relatively rational perspective. Your relationship, so if they feel it is inappropriate, then there is a high probability that it is really inappropriate.
5. Before you get together, this person may tell you that he doesn't mind some of your shortcomings, but if you really believe it and never change it - then there is a high probability that this person will end up because of those "don't mind" points. , break up with you.
6. People don't change. What this person did to his ex before will most likely do to you in the future. So don't expect to be that special person. It is indeed possible for the prodigal son to turn back, but the reason is most likely not you.
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Everyone likes a good-looking and wealthy partner, but for most ordinary people, finding such a partner may not be a very happy thing - because once the value of this person far exceeds you, then this person People must be very strong in relationships, or often cause trouble for you: because high-value people always know that they are high-value, they know very well that they have more choices.
8. What a person is like when he is with you, there is a high probability that he will be like that in the future, or even worse than he is now. So, do you know how unreliable it is to expect to transform the other person into someone you completely like? So if you are looking for a marriage partner, you should do it from the beginning.It’s time to strictly screen, instead of constantly deceiving yourself and telling yourself “it will be fine in the future.”
9. The most effective way to choose a spouse is actually: first have two or three relationships, each of which will not go to the end, analyze what type you are suitable for, and what kind of people you can attract; and then take what you have gained from these two or three relationships. Lessons learned, start your next relationship and find a better partner. (Such behavior is not recommended, but people who do it often have good relationships)
10. It is normal to pay for someone, but if you sacrifice your future or bottom line for someone, then there is a high probability that you will not make it to the end - this person is not willing to owe you a favor, and you will also accumulate a lot of resentment. So, once you reach the point where you have to sacrifice yourself to maintain your relationship, please choose to break up.
11. The relationship between you may subside, but if both of you are financially strong, then the comfortable life and sense of enjoyment can last for a long time - so do you know what kind of partner is most practical to find? Tears left after a broken love , it’s all because I was too idealistic when I was looking for a partner, and I got wet in my head.
12. In fact, if your partner in a relationship finds trouble with you and feels that you can't do anything well, it may not necessarily be because you really don't do it well. If you were fine before, but suddenly he starts acting like this - maybe it's because this person has second thoughts, and he uses this method to reduce his inner guilt.
13. In fact, the best age for boys and girls is when they are young. Girls were young and beautiful at that time, and boys were still admired by their "talent" at that time - so seize the time to fall in love, it will only get harder and harder in the future.
14. It is hoped that by threatening the other party with "breaking up", the other party will indeed make concessions. But the moment the threat is successful, the other party has already begun to feel that you are not someone who can get along with you for a long time and plans to break up with you. Therefore, you can only say breakup once, and that is when you have really made up your mind to leave this person.
15. A person who is suitable for falling in love may make you two very miserable once you get married; but with a person who is suitable for getting married, there is a high probability that you can also fall in love, but it will be a little dull - this is the importance of "suitability".