If you happen to meet an unreasonable girlfriend in a relationship, I believe it will give a man a huge headache. A girlfriend who is in love has higher expectations for a man's care and love. If you ignore it or don't do enough, she will definitely make trouble.
Girlfriends tend to be very irrational during relationships. No matter how normal a girlfriend is, she will become irrational. If you are the kind of person who is particularly tolerant, of course it doesn't matter; if you are not that kind of person, you must learn the following tricks to successfully get rid of your girlfriend's unreasonableness.
1. If your girlfriend is unreasonable, then try your best to obey her
It’s human to be unreasonable to your girlfriend It's normal, if you can tolerate her state, you can live in peace with her. Life is in a hurry, there is no need to take it too seriously. Since your girlfriend is unreasonable, let her do it. You have nothing to lose anyway.
2. Correct your mentality and accept all baptisms
Your girlfriend is unreasonable, so what can you do? It’s really courageous, you can choose to break up. Since you don't want to break up, then correct your mentality and endure everything that is about to happen.
3. Know how to refuse and don’t apologize
Unreasonable girlfriends are arrogant and arrogant. If she has some requirements for you, such as visiting something that you are particularly not interested in, Exhibition, listen to a concert by a singer you don't know at all, you can reject her directly, and you must not apologize. Many people make the mistake of thinking that if they don't dote on their girlfriend, it means they don't love them enough. In fact, that's not the case at all. You also dote on her, and the more unequal the relationship between you, the more likely it is that problems will arise.
4. Tell yourself that you love her
If it is true love, then tolerate her. With so much to complain about, who’s girlfriend doesn’t have a little temper? If you really pamper her enough, give her some sweetness and then train her, so that she can better accept the changes.
5. Have your own requirements for her
In love, everyone must maintain a balance. Girlfriends can be unreasonable, and men can also have their own requirements. This not only gives you a balance in your mind, but also allows the other person to value you more. Although the results may not be satisfactory, if you don’t take the initiative, you really have nothing. It’s all sacrifice.
6. You can compromise, but you cannot surrender
Compromise is a kind of knowledge. What can be compromised and what cannot be compromised must be maintained. When you make a compromise, make sure both parties get something, otherwise there's no point. If you don't get any benefit at all, then you have given in. Your giving in will only increase the other party's arrogance and make you more tired. The more this happens,, the more unstable your relationship becomes.
7. Don’t let her make decisions for you
Many men are used to it before making a decision. When asking women for their opinions, it is more reasonable to say that it is respect, but it is more reasonable to say that they have no opinion. If you let an unreasonable girl make a decision for you, how do you think things will develop? Be sure to take control of your own life, it will make it much easier for you.
8. Don’t coax her blindly
When your girlfriend is upset, don’t coax her all the time. Just wait for her to calm down and let her think about it. An unreasonable girlfriend can also be rational. When she regains her rationality, she will realize how unbearable her original behavior was. She may apologize to you, or she may just remain silent, either way, it will make her feel guilty towards you. If you always tolerate it or please her, your girlfriend will become more unscrupulous. This is a disease that needs to be treated, and you are her best doctor.
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