According to data, the reason why many people don’t have girlfriends is that, in addition to a series of external reasons such as social circles, there is also a particularly important reason, which is personality reasons. I don’t need to say more, everyone understands. It is generally difficult for introverted boys to find a girlfriend because of their personality.
However, does it mean that there is no hope? In my opinion, as long as you are willing to make changes and pay, you can still have a girlfriend, so today the editor has brought it to you Tips on how introverted boys can chase girls. If you also have troubles in this area, let’s take a look.
1. Encounter method
If you meet a person three times by chance, he or she will be unable to help but pay attention to you, so, Even if you have never spoken to the person you like, building your presence through chance encounters can make them care about you.
During the break between tea and water, you can chat casually, "What a coincidence, you came so early/you haven't left yet?"
On the way to and from class, You can say "Hello, come this way too~"
Just say hello gently, and after three times, he or she will take the initiative to look for you.
2. Circle of friends effect
When others begin to notice you, they often first observe your attitude towards the people around you. For example, you always get along well with your classmates and colleagues. He or she will also think that you are cheerful and approachable.
Therefore, you can show your smiling face generously without worrying that she cannot see it. It is best to participate in group activities. Your reputation among friends is the beginning of her understanding of you.
3. Similarity
The secret to increasing goodwill most quickly is to create a "same feeling"! When you have a common hobby, he or she will immediately label you as "similar" label.
Compared to other people, they will think that you have more in common with them:
“Do you also play this game? I was hesitating whether to buy a new skin, but you bought it. "
"So you also like to listen to Mayday, have you got the tickets for the concert?"
< h2>4. Effort effectThere is a famous "Franklin effect" in psychology. Those who have helped you will be more willing to help you, and the other party will think in their hearts, "Why should I help her? Well, maybe we have a good relationship, and I usually like her."
Agree to help you The process is to convince ourselves that we like you, so we can make a small request appropriately, which can increase the intimacy invisibly!
"Jianghu is in an emergency, lend me your pen~"
"Have you seen any good movies recently?"Please recommend!"
5. Missing Space
Finally, we need to relax. We had a great time chatting today, so we will chat the next day. We went out to play last weekend. This time There is no need to meet each other on weekends. As the saying goes, distance creates beauty. When we play together, everyone will only enjoy the excitement. If we separate and cool down, he will find out when he is lonely:
Huh? With him by your side I am very happy and miss him a little... Leave a little space for missing him.
Have you learned it? Just try it out as soon as you learn it. Don't be afraid of failure. Good things take a long time. I believe you will succeed. < /p>
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