Every boy should hope to meet a gentle and considerate girl as his girlfriend, but the reality may not be satisfactory. Maybe the girlfriend you are dating is not gentle, but rather strong and difficult to get along with. It's easy to have friction. So what should you do if you have a girlfriend who is too strong and feel tired?
1. Communicate well
Sometimes your girlfriend may be strong on the outside, but gentle on the inside. This kind of girl will become gentler the more she is pampered, and she will fall into love as long as she does not feel loved. Protect yourself with powerful armor. When you don't give her a sense of security enough, or she feels that you don't love her anymore, she will start to be strong to protect herself.
Because in the process of love, most boys dote on their girlfriends in every possible way at first, and then their girlfriends begin to accept them. If you are a boy, you will fall in love with him more and more, but if the boy is hot and cold, then your girlfriend will become strong and unreasonable.
Therefore, any problem must be analyzed in detail. Your girlfriend’s strength may be caused by you, so you can communicate with her carefully and work out a suitable way of getting along with each other. As long as she is kind, loyal, and sincere to you, don't give up easily. Of course, the issue of principle is another matter.
2. Express your own demands
Girlfriend is just a general term. It depends on where the strength lies. If your girlfriend is only strong in career, there is no problem, but if When you are in a relationship, your girlfriend is too strong and you can't stand it. In this case, you may need to reflect. The strong mentality is written in the genes. Equality between men and women is just a slogan, and there can be no physical and psychological equality. If you feel uncomfortable at this time, you may need to express your demands to your girlfriend. If she is willing to change it for you, this is okay.
Sometimes there may be differences in each other's understanding of language, resulting in emotional misunderstandings, and it is okay to be inappropriate. It's getting used to, but it doesn't matter whether you like it or not. It's not easy to meet someone you like, so cherish it. No one is born ready for you. There will be conflicts of one kind or another. Personally, I don't think you should give up easily without communication and reconciliation.
3. It depends on each other’s personalities
In fact, in the process of getting along with some couples, getting along with girlfriends may not be a bad thing. For example, if a boy's personality is inherently indecisive, having a strong girlfriend may be able to guide you, provided that she really makes the right decision. This is a common and model loving "complementary" couple or couple in our lives. You think she is strong, maybe this is what attracts you.
For exampleIf your girlfriend is not unreasonable when she is assertive, it is just that her thinking mode is different from yours. In this case, there are actually not that many major conflicts between you, and communication can solve them. But if your girlfriend becomes unreasonable when she becomes assertive and refuses to listen to your demands, then it may be difficult for you to continue.
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