Boys do not respect girls’ performance and talk about sexual topics with girls

★ Posted on 12-14,2024



If a boy behaves disrespectfully towards a girl, it will definitely make the girl very dissatisfied with you, and it will also greatly reduce the girl's impression of you. However, many boys may not realize the problem themselves and do not feel that their behavior is inappropriate. If girls do not speak out clearly, they may not even know that they disrespect girls. Let me share with you the signs of boys not respecting girls. In the process of chasing girls, you should do less of these things in the future.

Boys don’t respect girls’ performance

1. Talk about sex with girls

Boys can talk about sex with their good buddies, but for those who don’t If you talk to a girl you know too well about sex rashly, it is actually a sign of disrespect for the girl. Because sexual topics are inherently sensitive, many girls will be offended if you talk about them if they are conservative. And she will feel that your talking about sex is a test for her to consider when is the right time to make a move.

Therefore, when boys are chatting with girls, they should never say anything like, "What do you think of one-night stands?" "That woman was wearing very revealing clothes just now, did you see that?" "I have a colleague with a neck problem. There are red marks everywhere after being kissed, don't you think it's ridiculous..." These sexual topics will make a girl feel that you don't respect her, make her think that you look down on her and think that she is a casual woman, so she will feel very angry.

2. Ask girls about their emotional experiences

When we like a girl, we may treat her I am very interested and want to know more about her, so I will ask a lot about her, but you must be careful during this process and do not ask the girl about her previous emotional experience, since the girl has said goodbye to her previous relationship. , then she definitely doesn’t want to mention it casually. If you ask her rashly, she will definitely feel that you are a little inconsiderate of her feelings and disrespectful.

In fact, you can understand this matter if you put yourself in someone else’s shoes. You definitely don’t want to discuss your ex in front of your current one, right? Conflicts can arise if you are not careful, so we generally recommend not mentioning emotional experiences together.

3. Entering a girl’s room when you are not familiar with her

Many boys only ask to go to a girl’s house for a few days after dating. In this case, it doesn’t matter what excuse you make. No matter how good it is, it may make girls uncomfortable. Why? Because when you are not familiar with a girl, she doesn’t want to show her true self to you too quickly, and she will also have a sense of safety protection. What if you don’t get together and you pester her later? So at this time, whether you are really thirsty and need tea, or you are urgent and need to go to the toilet, entering a girl's room when you are not familiar with her is a sign of disrespect for the girl.

4. Ask girls to accompany you

If you are not planning to invite girls to dinner, you just made an appointment with a few buddies to have dinner together, and you have even sat down to eat. At this moment, it suddenly occurred to you that the girl lives nearby, and you can ask her to come over to keep you company. It will be lively when everyone eats, so you call at this time The girl asked her to come out, which is also very disrespectful to the girl. Because we need to make an appointment with a girl in advance so that she has time to prepare. If you ask her to come over temporarily to liven up the atmosphere, who do you think she is?

5. Randomly complaining about a girl’s appearance

Some boys don’t keep their mouth shut and just say whatever comes to their mind. They casually complain about a girl’s appearance, such as “Your nose is too flat, okay? "Get off your mat", "Why are you so tanned?", "You look so short, are you really 160?" Although what you said is true, you give people a disrespectful look when you say it. feeling.

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