Not every marriage can go to the end. Many people part ways halfway. If your marriage has the following symptoms, please start making preparations immediately to avoid being caught off guard at the end:
p>Signs of a marriage coming to an end
1. Habitual silence from both parties
Silence Being in a cold war means that you don't want to have any more relations or involvement with the other party, and it also means that the other party has acquiesced that no conclusion can be drawn from communicating with you. Instead of adding to the problem, it is better to say nothing at all.
2. The two of them have become roommates
I don’t know what the other person is doing, and I don’t care anyway; why does this person come home more and more late recently? I know, because I'm not interested in where this person is willing to go.
3. Appearing in front of others together less and less
Whether it is a gathering of friends or going back to visit your parents together, for you, the frequency of appearing in the same frame is becoming more and more frequent. The less.
On the one hand, it’s out of sight, out of mind, and neither of you wants to see the other more; on the other hand, it’s because you subconsciously feel that since you are going to be separated in the future, it’s better not to show up together now, so as not to worry about it in the future. They seemed awkward with each other.
4. The other party has obvious cheating behavior
Once the other party cheats, the most basic thing about this marriage is The cornerstone of trust is gone. This person has betrayed the basic contract of a relationship, and there is no longer any need to think of ways to keep this person.
Even if you are able to maintain this marriage in the end, your relationship with each other will be more like a "restraint" and "containment" than a normal relationship between husband and wife.
5. Feeling impatient with all the information you want to convey
As soon as you say a few words to him, the person becomes angry; After saying that, this person turned around and left... He became more and more impatient with you, leaving less and less time and energy for you. He no longer wanted to put any thought into this relationship.
6. Always looking for excuses to avoid you
Whether it’s working overtime, socializing, or having something to do, the other person comes home less and less often. As soon as he reacted, he immediately locked himself in the room and refused to come out. The other person doesn't want to talk to you at all, nor does he want to be in the same space with you.
7. We haven’t had sex for a long time
Physical intimacy is a very important reference factor in measuring a relationship. If neither of you is willing to touch each other, then it means that you From the bottom of my heart, I have begun to dislike each other very much and want to part ways with each other.
8. Became very sensitive to property and income
It turns out that we have a good relationship and are all a family, so these things don’t matter. , none of it matters.
But now, you all feel that this marriage is no longer necessary, or you feel that the other person will part ways with you sooner or later, so at this time you all begin to pay attention to the resources in this family, and your own How much value have you contributed? Have you suffered a loss in this relationship and let the other party take advantage?
9. Start complaining frequently about the other person’s faults
In fact, these problems did not appear on the first day, but this person was generally good in your eyes before, so you still Be willing to tolerate this person.
But now, the other person’s image in your heart has become negative, and you no longer have any reason to choose to tolerate him, so you start to blame each other and keep looking for each other’s shortcomings. Boards and Disadvantages.
10. Start doing something to cut off the relationship between the two parties
If your significant other is starting a business, you need to observe whether this person has recently started to change his shares or reduce his own shareholding. income. Often at this time, the person has already begun to retreat and plan for his future.
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