Most girls are reserved. When dating boys, they may act shy and unable to let themselves go. What should boys do to make her less shy?
1. Warm up before dating
Because girls are shy, try to warm up before dating. Warm it up and let her get into love mode as soon as possible. For example, you can contact your wife on the phone or have a verbal chat before departure, so that she can adapt to this intimate relationship with you in advance. And after communicating through video and voice communication, everyone will definitely feel that the distance between the two people is not that far away. In this way, if you understand each other's voices, it will not cause embarrassment.
Of course, you can also develop a favorable impression of you through some of your words and deeds after meeting on a date, so as not to exclude intimate contact with you during the date.
2. Distance contact after meeting
If a girl is shy during a date, then she must remember One point: Try not to choose a date scene where you can have zero distance or close contact. That will give your girl no buffer time to get into the mood, and it will easily lead to a cold scene or embarrassment.
Therefore, it is recommended that everyone meet in an area where they can sit side by side, such as park benches, small bars, cinemas, unique cafes, etc. Everyone can sit side by side so that they are not too far apart. It's close, not too far, and the location is just right.
I think this means that the emotions required for a date are appropriate, and no one will feel embarrassed. It is very important to make girls feel that we are comfortable together.
3. Polite physical touch
Physical contact should be carried out slowly. You can take the initiative to meet during the meeting. When you ask for a handshake, just hold it for a second or two. Don't make your girl feel uncomfortable. Finally, give the girl a relaxed and happy feeling, and she will naturally relax with the relaxed atmosphere you create.
In fact, it is not a big problem in principle that your girl is shy. As long as you guide her well, it will gradually improve. And it’s not a bad thing for girls to be shy. Some boys like to see their girls shy and think such girls are cute.
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