Widowed marriage usually refers to a marriage without feelings. The man and woman who are married live a widowed and lonely life. In fact, it is no different from being widowed. Both spouses or one of them ignores family responsibilities and obligations and treats them indifferently. companion. Couples in widowed marriages have become a living partner. Couples in this kind of family do not have the emotional needs they need, which can easily lead to depression, infidelity, and even divorce.
The crux of widowed marriage
The pace of life in modern society is getting faster and faster, and most couples have it. After getting married, the novelty between husband and wife continued to decline. When they returned home, they were busy with their own affairs and did not care about each other's affairs. As time went by, even the most intimate relationship between husband and wife no longer communicated.
A very common thing in widowed marriages is that the other party takes their contribution for granted and never feels grateful, or does not think it is a kind of contribution at all. The more times a couple engages in hot-faced and cold-butt interactions, no matter how good the relationship is, a estrangement will gradually develop, and the atmosphere and mood in the family will gradually be affected.
Escape from family responsibilities is an important crux of a widowed marriage. For example: as a husband, you do not support the family's financial expenses, and as a wife, you do not take care of the daily life of the elderly and children in the family...
How to redeem a widowed marriage
After marriage, as a family member, you should assume the responsibilities of a family member. Or when your wife encounters difficulties, care more about the other person and comfort the other person. What the family needs is love, not complaining and blaming. Sometimes the love we give is not recognized and feedback is not received, and we will be disappointed and become estranged from our partners. Being equally cold will only make the situation worse. Love never cares.
Due to the busy family life, many couples have changed from talking and laughing during love to being silent after marriage. Emotions are bound to be affected, so no matter how busy they are, couples should communicate more, talk about their difficulties, and seek comfort from each other. People's hearts are fragile, and couples should treat each other more gently.
The phenomenon of widowed marriage has become more and more common in modern society, and the development of society has also determined the trend of subordinate marriage. The transformation of cooperative marriage is an issue that modern couples should pay attention to. Only action can save the possibility, and indifference is just procrastination.
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