When chatting with a girl on WeChat, we may encounter a situation where the girl takes the initiative to ask for a red envelope. If you give it, you feel like you are trying to please her, but if you don’t give it, you will feel stingy. Should this be the case? Give it?
1. The girl you like asks you for a red envelope
A girl you just met on WeChat asks you for a red envelope You can refuse the red envelope without thinking, but if the other person is a girl you like and you have known her for a while, should you give it to her in this case?
First, let us understand what you like The psychology of a girl asking you for a red envelope:
First of all, she doesn’t like you at all, and chatting with you is purely to kill time and make money.
Second, she wants to test you (but most serious girls will not test you like this) to see if you will spend money for her, but afterwards the girl will compensate you for your money in other forms. (Emphasis added)
If this girl only asks you for a red envelope for the first time, then you can try sending her a 52 and see her reply. If she is too little, that is the first psychology. At this time, she can give up decisively, otherwise she will be bombarded with red envelopes in the future. If she says she is very happy and gives you a gift or a red envelope, that is the second situation. At this time, you have passed her test.
2. The girl you have loved asks you for a red envelope
In this case, the boy will give it to the girl Red envelope, this is a kind of emotional compulsion.
If you don’t give it to her, you won’t seem to be able to show mercy, but if you give it to her, you will feel that she won’t return it, and then you will be embarrassed to ask for it. This is the secret of most boys who find themselves in this situation.
First of all, you must know that girls will definitely not borrow money from boys for no reason, especially boys who have been in love. If she asks you to borrow money, then you can, based on your actual situation:
Borrow if you can;
If it is inconvenient to borrow money, speak frankly about your situation;
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If you have money but are unwilling to borrow it, then it must be that the relationship is no longer there, so just reply according to the previous words.
When you meet a girl who asks you for money rudely and directly, she is not willing to ask you to borrow it tactfully. Little brother should recognize the reality as soon as possible. She directly treats you as a cash machine and reflects on whether you are too soft to her.
3. Your girlfriend always asks you for red envelopes
When dating a girl, it is very expensive to spend money on her. It's normal, but if she always asks you to spend money, ask you for red envelopes. For example: today I ask you to buy a bag, tomorrow I ask you to send a holiday red envelope, and the day after tomorrow I ask you to buy her a very expensive set.lipstick.
She blindly asks you to pay, but she doesn’t even take the initiative to buy you a pair of socks. This kind of woman is not your girlfriend at all, but your money crusher, brother! You should give up decisively!
A girlfriend who truly loves you will not always ask you for money. , will generally balance the financial efforts between you: you buy her a bag today, she may buy you a pair of shoes tomorrow; if you send her a 521 (I love you) red envelope, she may give it to you A 514 (me too); if you let her watch a movie, she will rush to pay for the meal...
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