Some boys flirt with girls on WeChat, and it doesn’t take long before they can ask them out to meet. Some boys take a long time to hook up with girls, and some girls don’t even bother to say hello. This is actually the difference between high and low ability to flirt with girls.
Today, the editor will tell you how to improve your ability to attract girls by analyzing some real chat records.
1. Provide value first, then ask for it
Most boys who are not good at flirting with girls are It’s like the chat above.
When flirting with girls on WeChat, if you keep asking the girl, but you don’t provide interesting topics yourself, and you just know how to tease her, you will either be directly blocked by the girl, or you will be blocked by the girl. He was immediately treated coldly and perfunctorily.
In other words, if you want to attract a girl to be interested in you, then you have to be a person who can provide value to her, tell her your common sense and opinions that can help her, and give her Bring fresh and interesting experiences, rather than seeking attention in a show-off and pretentious mood.
For example:
2. Avoid being overly concerned
Sometimes , the reason why you are a bit "dog-licking" in the eyes of girls is because you talk too much!
My dear It's absolutely okay to express concern when a girl is sick, but it should be done in moderation!
Excessive concern and too low a posture can easily arouse the girl's resentment. She has a cold. It's enough for you to give her a box of cold medicine and say "get some rest", but you still want to be her mother-in-law. Really, it seems too rude.
Many boys like to chat awkwardly when chasing girls, and find something to talk about when they have nothing to say. You think this is to avoid being cold, but in fact it just makes you look bored.
The person who can speak must not be the one who talks the most, but the one who speaks the most valuable words.
There is no need to talk for fear of being cold. Silence is golden. Appropriate silence will make your words carry more weight.
3. Improving yourself is the key
Wasting other people’s time is equal to murder! So you must be an interesting person and let girls passively gain fun while chatting with you. things and experiences.
If you could only talk about family ethics TV series, how boring your daily work is, and vulgar jokes, but through daily practice, you can later talk about movies, art exhibitions, and dramas, then you don’t have to worry about not meeting them. Appreciate your soulmate.
In addition, people who are good at chatting will definitely not just talk about themselves. You have to learn to build a comfortableCreate a suitable chatting environment and allow girls to participate.
If she is proficient in a certain aspect, you can let her be a narrator and you can just listen.
When flirting with girls, the important thing is not to make yourself comfortable with what you say, but to make each other feel comfortable; to tease girls, then you first Make a girl feel very comfortable chatting with you, and then she will continue chatting with you and have a follow-up.
If you can persevere in the above three skills, you will greatly improve your flirting and chatting skills. Of course, it may still be a little difficult to attract the girl you like just by relying on these three skills, and you still need more practice. Just fine.
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