How to tell if a girl has a crush on you?
Any signals, indicators of interest, or words are all nonsense. In fact, if you want to know if a girl has a crush on you, you only need two words. It can be summarized - connection.
The so-called connection means that a girl does not exclude you from understanding her, is interested in getting to know you, and takes the initiative to let you understand her behavior.
1. What does it mean to not exclude you from understanding her?
When you ask a girl about her daily life, when When you want to know relevant information about a girl, as long as the girl is not reluctant to tell you and is willing to answer your questions, it means that the girl has the most basic interest in you.
But I still have to explain something here: Don’t keep asking, but intersperse your own introduction when asking.
"I went to university in Beijing, so I am familiar with this area. What do you like to eat? I might be able to take you to try it."
"I am a student. Computers, I heard that you are under more pressure to study finance than we are to study computers. Is it difficult for you to have many professional courses?"
"Because I work in a private company, I feel that interpersonal relationships in the workplace are more complicated. I heard It is said that because all state-owned enterprises work for the state, interpersonal relationships are not tense. Do you feel this way when you work?"
2. What does it mean to be interested in getting to know you
When a girl exhibits the following behaviors, it means that the girl is really starting to have thoughts about you:
She starts to take the initiative to ask you about things - What are you doing, what have you been busy with recently, where are you posting in Moments;
Even deeper, when a girl asks you - what do you think about this, what do you think? Well, when you think about it, this girl is not only interested in getting to know you, she has even begun to be more or less inclined towards you: she feels that she can trust you.
Of course, for those girls who are more introverted, it may be a little difficult for them to take the initiative to get to know you, but there is one kind of performance they can’t hide - when you tell things about yourself, or share yourself When you are going through the experience, they will look at you very attentively and listen carefully.
3. What does it mean to take the initiative to let you know her?
A girl is a creature who likes to share and communicate. , if a girl starts to take the initiative to share herself and let you get to know her, it means that the girl's heart has been completely opened to you.
We have said before that in the process of interacting with a girl, the emergence of a classic move means that the girl has started toShe is beginning to be very interested in you: she starts to talk to you about her daily life.
"I worked overtime today, so tired."
The temperature has dropped, it’s so cold” - I know that for many straight men, this sentence has a unified reply in your hearts. You want to say it but don’t dare to say it:
It’s none of my business!
But you are totally wrong: Why should she tell you what she says to her best friends even though she can tell her family?
It means that this girl has begun to get used to talking to you. You have shared your life, and in her psychological division, you have officially entered the "intimate circle".
Young man, if you continue like this for about half a month, you can confess your love - you can't delay for too long, or she will become a brother.
The same principle applies to pursuing girls: just keep chatting, chatting about daily life, sharing music or Weibo every day, and it only takes half an hour every time.
When this girl gets used to your presence, and when this girl starts to count you as someone who "can share her daily life at any time", your success rate in pursuing her will skyrocket.
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