When a girl has a cold or a fever, her defenses are most vulnerable. At this time, if you care properly, you can easily get into her heart, but most boys use rational thinking to care and give to girls. Ways to solve problems, such as:
"Why do you have a fever? Have you taken antipyretics?"
"Why are you so careless? I didn't tell you to wear more clothes. Clothes?"
Although this kind of caring method is okay, it is also difficult to win the favor of girls. So how can a girl care about her when she has a fever and successfully win her heart?
First of all, the girl sends you a message saying that she has a fever, which means that the relationship between you and the girl is relatively close. Of course, it does not rule out that the girl is testing you, but no matter What is the purpose of telling you that she has a fever? She is expressing her state and emotions. In fact, she just wants you to care about her.
But why do girls not like words like "take some medicine, see a doctor, rest more, or drink more hot water" that are obviously practical and useful? Because the answers girls want are not these. Women's Their thinking is more inclined to emotion and imagination, and they care more about your attitude.
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She also knows that it is good for her to "take some medicine, see a doctor, get more rest, or drink more hot water", but she still comes to you and says "she has a fever" just to get your consideration. and a feeling of care.
Don’t reply with a straight male mentality of solving problems, because the solution is impersonal. Girls also know to take care of themselves, so avoid saying: “take care of yourself” or “see a doctor or take medicine.” Seek medical advice." Such comforting words.
Therefore, the correct way of comforting should express these two attitudes:
1. I I understand you are feeling very sad
2. I really feel sorry for you.
Then decide based on the degree of the relationship you are in and whether there are girls in other places who have a fever and the severity of the fever.
1. When you are in a different place with a girl
When you are in a different place with a girl, it is obviously impossible to see the girl in the shortest time, and the girl is at this time. If you need your comfort, then you must show your anxiety and concern for the girl at this time, and ask her how she is. Is it serious? Have you seen a doctor or taken medicine? You can reply like this:
Why are you like this? I accidentally caught a fever. You look really anxious. Do you feel uncomfortable? Have you taken medicine/see a doctor?
2. When you are in the same city as a girl
When you are in the same city as a girl and the distance is relatively close, when the girl says If you have a fever, don't just give her verbal comfort. Being directly in front of her is the best panacea.
Here we can reply to girls like this:
"Did you catch a cold last night? It's really worrying to be so careless. Is there anything you want to eat? I'll bring it to you. Don’t go anywhere, I’ll be there in a minute.”
3. When you are friends with a girl
When you are friends with a girl, you are chatting A middle school girl reveals to you that she has a fever. Although this is a good window, your current relationship with the girl is just friends, so you can choose to reply like this:
You look like a strong girl on the outside. , but I still long for care in my heart. If you have a cold, you must take care of yourself and remember to take medicine. If you have anything, you can come to me, I will always be there.
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