When a girl says she doesn’t have feelings for you, she is actually sending you a good friend card. However, this situation does not mean that there is no chance at all. What she wants to express may be that she feels that there is still a little bit of feeling between the two parties. Then What to do in this situation?
Now let’s look at a case.
Xiaolong is 31 years old. He has a relatively honest personality and is not very good at flirting with girls. His current job is in retail products and he usually spends a lot of time traveling. Xiaoling is 27 years old and works in securities. We met through the woman’s mother and had a long-distance relationship. Xiaoling is in Hunan and Xiaolong is in Guangdong.
Xiaolong usually gives Xiaoling some gifts, such as bags and so on.
One time, Xiaolong asked Xiaoling: "Do you like me?"
Xiaoling said: "I don't have any feeling of love." When I heard this sentence, I actually felt very uncomfortable. taste, but I didn’t show it at the time
Xiaoling added another sentence: "You are a very suitable person for marriage"
The boys and girls here are girls. They were introduced by their mother. Since they were introduced, the girl’s mother will definitely know about the boy’s family background, character, work, etc. before the introduction. Therefore, the boy’s hard value conditions must meet the requirements of the girl’s family. This This is the biggest advantage that you can finally be together.
But again, value is divided into two categories, one is hard value, and the other is soft value. This is what this brother lacks. When a boy and a girl have been dating for more than a month, the girl has also felt the boy's care and concern for her, but this is not enough, because love is not enough just caring and caring. Love also needs romance, passion and feeling. Come right.
With material things and the feeling of love, such a marriage and family can be happier, otherwise they can stay together for a longer time , and emotional problems are prone to occur.
As the saying goes, a man is like a flower at 30, and a 31-year-old man with a good career is the icing on the cake. A girl is 27 years old, no longer a young girl, so everyone has come to talk about marriage. As they get older, girls at this age will be more cautious when making relationship choices and will consider more factors. For example, will a man treat you well after getting together, will you be happy after getting together, and are you really suitable for each other? "Suitability" can be said to be the biggest factor for a 27-year-old girl when considering a relationship.
From the fact that boys often give gifts, it can be seen that he is very good to girls, but we must understand that a girl must have experienced many boys who are very good to her, so they understand that they are only good to me. We may not always be together, so I still have concerns and concerns.
So, what we have to do is to letA girl can be a cute little girl in front of you, bringing her back to the fun, exciting and impulsive feeling of facing love when she was young.
Therefore, the place where you make an appointment is very important. Don’t just have a meal and watch a movie, but learn to find opportunities to hold hands and have physical collisions when you meet. Being able to swim in the world of the two of you is the best way to bring a girl a sense of love and excitement
Secondly, if you can cook, you don’t need to go out to dinner, but treat it as a date. After that, go back to your home and make her favorite food by yourself.
Girls will think: "This boy is quite attentive and knows that I like to eat this." Secondly, girls will be subconsciously familiar with it. You will be secretly happy during the little days you spend together. If this continues, it will be difficult for a girl not to fall in love with you or be moved by you.
You can also complete the activity of cooking together. Things that two people experience together are often very needed in a relationship.
Compared with buying gifts, this is the most effective way for a 27-year-old girl who wants to get married but has no courage, undecidedness, and no sense of love, because she can feel that she is with you. Romance and your intentions
So brothers, please don’t just pursue girls in a flattering way. Many times what girls want in relationships is not just a man who is good to her, they What she needs is a man who is stronger emotionally and can lead her. What she needs is a deep interactive attraction, rather than a meaningless way of caring like superficial chatting and asking her if she has eaten or slept.
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