If a boy really wants to be single and find a girlfriend, then he will definitely work hard until he finds a girlfriend. But why do some boys still can't find a girlfriend after several years even though they work hard? Do you know what the problem is?
Why can’t I find a girlfriend after several years?
1. Think more but do less
Those who can’t find a girlfriend after several years? People who are friends are probably like this: they think more and do less. Are there any benefits to overthinking? Of course! Being able to have good plans and plans will look reliable. However, it looks reliable, is that enough?
Which is more important, the design drawing or the construction? No answer yet. Let’s talk about something grand first. The difference between humans and robots is that humans have emotions. Only those with strong emotions will be humane. Twenty years ago, a Northeastern person would start a fight if someone looked at him while walking on the street. However, Northeastern people are also famous for their loyalty.
Grandpa Xiaoping also said, cross the river by feeling the stones, who knows which way to go, don't worry about it, just kill it first. The reason why some people can't find a girlfriend for several years is because they think too much and do too little.
Is it more important to love her or to hold her? Is it more important to wash your hair or to see her? In the direction of emotion, I still firmly support the habits of southerners, practice brings true knowledge and practice true love.
Some northerners always like to have everything ready, and they must seek permission before they start taking action, as if they are too embarrassed to say hello to people even if they are opening a BBA. But it takes too long to reach your full capacity. You've already beaten two games of other people's games, but you haven't finished loading it. Finally, you said you wanted to play King. Who would agree?
When the hardware conditions are not easy to change, it is often better to explore by trial and error, to play cards that do not follow common sense, or even to try weird things.
Most of the time when you can’t find a girlfriend, it’s not that you are good enough to achieve something, but that you continue to show yourself to the outside world and show your imperfect self, thus having the possibility of perfecting yourself. To find a girlfriend.
2. Don’t understand the nature of love
Some boys think it is very difficult to chase girls. They feel that even if they take action, they will not be able to find a girlfriend. This is how they think. The main reason for boys is: they don’t realize what the essence of love is? In other words, they don’t know how to get along with girls? Don't know how to chase a girl? Like a "headless fly", flying around.
The vast majority of boys believe that chasing girls means always "chasing" them. They just need to be nice to girls and say sweet words to girls. But, you know what? This will put a lot of pressure on the girl, and she will not feel comfortable getting along with you.
When a girl feels that she doesn’t feel comfortable or happy when she gets along with you, how can she fall in love with you?
The true meaning of love The essence is: attraction, without attraction, there is no love! I hope boys can always remember this sentence when they are chasing girls. Only when a girl is truly attracted to you can she truly fall in love with you. , when a girl loves you enough, your love life will be truly happy.
Without mutual attraction, there is no love. Love without love is destined to be unhappy. .
I hope that boys who have not been able to find a girlfriend for several years will reflect on themselves and get out of singles as soon as possible after reading the above content!
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