Some women can often make a man want to stop. Although we know that these women are playing with their feelings, they just can’t let go or escape. These women are often called scumbags by us. So how do we tell whether a woman is a scumbag?
1. What kind of woman is a scumbag?
In the eyes of girls, scumbags are those boys who are good-looking, have high emotional intelligence, have good taste, and like to flirt with multiple girls at the same time.
What kind of girl can be called a scumbag?
A simple summary is that she is good-looking, has a good figure, has a nice voice, is smart and understands men very well, and knows how to behave well. She is hot, knows how to dress up, knows how to show weakness, and is very good at playing.
The capital they play with is basically to use tricks to squeeze some men, such as driving Man A’s car, swiping Man B’s credit card, and accepting gifts from Man C.
Encountering a scumbag is not the worst thing. Meeting one without knowing it is the greatest tragedy.
You thought you were in love with a scumbag, but in fact it was just a date, and you still had to pay for it.
You think you and the scumbag can grow old together, but in fact she only sees you as a short resting place.
The biggest characteristic of scumbag girls is selfishness. They are self-centered, extremely selfish, and can "rationalize" their selfishness.
From time to time, there is a famous quote from Wilde, loving yourself is the beginning of a lifelong romance.
This is a true villain who talks about benevolence and righteousness, and a moral hypocrite.
In the name of love, I tell you how you should love me.
In order to pursue excitement, she spends your money and hangs out with several men every day, but you have no way of knowing when you become a green turtle. She is affectionate, but you are the one who becomes hysterical; she is indifferent, and you are the one who becomes unreasonable.
2. What to do if you meet a scumbag?
Therefore, after meeting a scumbag, we must Know how to stay away from her!
1. Admit the facts
First of all, you have to admit that there are indeed such people in this world. There are really people who are so scumbag and so bad.
When you meet such a person, don’t think that it might be caused by your own failure in one aspect, and don’t try to awaken them with your own care.
Don’t ask why there are such people. To put it bluntly, some people decide that they are a scumbag man/woman from the moment they are born.
2. Believe in yourself
The most common habit of scumbags is to use words and actions to distort your understanding. They try to manipulate your thoughts.
But you have to trust your instincts.
In your understanding, she did indeed do something wrong, then she did something wrong. Don’t be deceived by her methods, and don’t lower your bottom line out of sympathy or pity.
3. Learn to protect yourself
Scumbags often have no moral bottom line and do not pay attention to social rules and regulations. Human courtesy.
We can’t understand their behavior!
Don’t think that this time she knows she is wrong. This time she will restrain herself and she will change. Once she is hurt, she will At the moment, you think of how to protect yourself. They don't play according to the routine, and you will never be able to defeat them.
4. The past is irreparable
Many people will choose to break up at first after being cheated, but due to the other person's superb acting skills, they often choose to accept the other person again.
Because they felt that they spent too much time and energy to be with her.
If we break up, everything I have put in before will be lost, which is not worth it.
But have you ever thought about it, no matter what you do in the future, you cannot redeem what you have paid in the past. In economics, there is a concept called sunk cost, so it is necessary to stop losses in time. .
But if you continue like this, the price you pay will be higher. So, why not say to her openly, goodbye!
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