Most of the couples in love are rushing to get married, but I have to say that some couples are really only suitable for falling in love, but are not suitable for staying together or getting married. Let’s learn about the two couples with the editor below. What are the signs that an individual is not suitable for marriage?
Signs of two people being unsuitable for marriage:
1. Inconsistency in three views.
Love is not just as simple as two people being together. There are many other little things in life that cannot be ignored. Being together with people who have different views can only increase the conflicts in each other's hearts. One person likes the other and the other likes the other. West, inappropriate is inappropriate after all.
2. Relationship inequality
A healthy emotional relationship is about equal relationships, mutual encouragement and care, and mutual love. Only by maintaining a healthy emotional relationship can two people get along better together. If any one of these elements is imbalanced, it will lead to problems. In the process of a couple's relationship, the most likely imbalance is between two people. Unequal relationships.
When two people are together, if one is always strong and the other is weak, such a person is doomed to not make it to the end, because the weak one will feel depressed, and problems will arise if suppressed for a long time. For example, after many people fall in love, the other person takes the lead in everything, and they call it love by subduing themselves. Gradually, the strong will become stronger, and the weak will become weaker, until the love is slowly wiped away by disputes.
When two people get married and live together, they should "each perform their duties." If the relationship between two people is not equal when you are in love, then you must not get married.
3. Incompatibility of personalities.
When you are in love, you clearly know what kind of person the other person is, but you still stay together with the heart that he will definitely change. Women in love always think that they are the savior of the other person, but in the end you will find that you are nothing but They are each other's passers-by.
4. Only one party takes the initiative in the relationship.
Love requires the joint efforts of both parties to make it last long. A relationship that is paid by one party can only be unrequited love. A long-term initiative will only make the party who gives it tired and tired of the relationship.
5. Paying too much attention to interests and money
Once in a finance class, the finance teacher said: "The most damaging thing to emotional relationships is monetary interests, especially the relationship between husband and wife. The most complicated relationship. "
When love turns into marriage, the most obvious difference is the fusion of financial interests. Two people live together. These are things that must be experienced and cannot be completely grasped. Get clear. If there are always conflicts between two people because of financial interests during their love period, then the two people are really not suitable for marriage. The financial interests during the love period compare with the financial interests of marriage.It's all superficial. If problems arise just because of superficial things, bigger problems will arise in the future.
6. Too many differences
Two people are two independent individuals, and of course there will be some differences. place, so for love, it is very important to seek common ground while reserving differences and tolerate each other. For a marriage partner, our most important conditions are actually not appearance or money... but that two people must be compatible, which is what we call the three-dimensional harmony.
Only when two people have a harmonious view of the world, there will be few differences. Occasional differences are not a problem, as long as they are resolved properly. But when there are too many differences, there is no way to seek common ground while reserving differences. What you will face next is endless quarrels. Quarrel may promote the relationship to a certain extent, but always quarreling will definitely destroy the relationship.
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