Life is never smooth sailing, and the same goes for relationships. On the road to pursuing true love, you will always encounter some misunderstandings. So what are the misunderstandings about boys chasing girls?
1. Express love through confession
I didn’t catch up with the good times when I was in junior high school. I didn't get the right guidance at the age when my love first emerged.
At that time, it was an era when Japanese and Korean dramas were popular. On TV, there were girls wearing socks and short skirts holding textbooks and smiling with bright eyes: "Senior, can you date me?"
At that time, I also had a crush on a girl. It was a pure crush and I didn’t even say a few words to her.
When I was in the second grade of junior high school, I couldn’t hold it any longer. I imitated Hong Kong and Taiwanese accents and ran over to the young lady and said: Senior sister, can you date me?
The sky was very dark that day. Blue, the leaves are very green, I was beaten badly.
The senior sister has a boyfriend. However I don't know.
Senior sister doesn’t know me. However I don't know.
From here, the second misunderstanding of chasing girls can be revealed: the mistaken belief that confession will lead to success.
Here I would like to ask the majority of male compatriots: If confession can make things happen, why can idol dramas last more than 40 episodes?
There was a popular saying on the Internet: "Confession is a ceremony to confirm a relationship, not a clarion call to charge."
Don't worry that the young lady doesn't know that you like her. You have been a woman for so many years. , no matter how bad you are, you will still meet a few bad guys who want to eat cabbage.
What you need to do is to show off slowly. If you haven’t known each other before, then find a chance to get to know each other first, and then show off slowly.
During the performance process, collect useful information and get through to your best friends.
Don’t underestimate a woman’s intuition. As long as you are not too subtle, your little sister will definitely be able to detect it.
2. Don’t know how to spend money
It is inevitable to ask for almost necessary expenses from young ladies. But the money must be spent in the right place.
Girls generally have relatively high material needs. The pile of shoes, bags, clothes, lipstick and cosmetics can cost a bank safe.
But you have to understand: lifestyle determines material needs. Before she met you, she lived well alone. So you don’t have to buy this or that, she can definitely maintain her basic daily life by herself.
So where should your money be spent?
The answer is simple: spend it on surprises.
Friends who have done e-commerce should all know that there is a position in the business system called: data processing center. The main job of this position is to explore the potential needs of customers, complete the target push. In a relationship, you have to act as the "data processing center."
Pay more attention to her preferences. There must be something in a girl's life that she really wants, but she can't afford it. Or something you are reluctant to buy. When you find out, your money comes in handy.
You must be humble when giving gifts. If you are not humble, just pretend to be casual. If it doesn't work, just send it by express delivery. In any case, don't show off the value of the gift or appear to be giving. A girl's self-esteem is more important than you think.
There is a second use for money: best friends.
If you want to embrace a beautiful woman, it is essential to get through to your besties. What does a best friend do? A best friend is the closest contact in her life.
From eating to getting married and having children, the shadow of best friends is everywhere. If you could buy some snacks and lipstick for your bestie, and open up this joint, would you still be afraid that no one would help you with your love?
p>3. Not clear about your position
Before the girl agrees, you are just an ordinary friend. If you are exhausted, you will be considered as more than a friendship, but not a lover.
So at this time, do not consider yourself your boyfriend and do not interfere too much in her life.
She can go with whoever she likes to play with. You must not express dissatisfaction at this time. If you are really jealous and can't stand it, then just go along with her.
If there are only two people, one man and one woman, plus you, two men and one woman, this is your chance.
There is no girl who doesn’t like boys who are well-organized and talk clearly. And your goal is to become such a boy. Even if you can't meet the standards of a gentleman, you still have to pretend.
In short, one sentence: you must be better than another boy. Good birds and good trees are the right place to roost.
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