Some boys obviously have good conditions and can even be said to be excellent, but why can't they find a girlfriend? In fact, it is caused by some wrong thinking. Next, I will tell you the wrong thinking that causes boys to find a girlfriend.
What thoughts cause boys to not find a girlfriend?
1. Can’t understand and can’t speak
Many outstanding boys often have skills other than their own majors Apart from his technical skills, he is relatively ignorant in the social field. To put it bluntly, he is a straight man who cannot communicate with girls and cannot understand the subtext of girls, which often leads to some hilarious conversations.
Let me give you an example. For example, a girl tells you that her parents are going to travel for a week. You are so scared when you are alone at home, and then you think about what you should do to make him not afraid? So you spent a lot of money to buy a girl anti-wolf spray. When the girl received the express delivery, you were very enthusiastic. Explain to girls how to use it.
Some of the better boys are really not good at communicating with girls. They don’t understand what girls mean, so they use the simplest and most straightforward way to communicate with girls, like this Communication will make girls feel unbearable, and this is the reason why such boys cannot find girlfriends.
2. Introversion
Some outstanding boys always like to immerse themselves in their own world, so They are very focused on things, and this is why they are easy to excel.
But this is also the reason why they can’t find a girlfriend. They always focus on their work and study, and rarely socialize with others. Even if they talk, they only talk to colleagues or classmates about focused matters. Topic,
If things go on like this, people will naturally become introverted and not very good at talking. So when these outstanding boys want to find a girlfriend, they will find that they don’t know what to say when talking to girls. And after this happens more times, they will become even less interested in communicating with girls. , because they feel that they don’t understand it, and they don’t pay much attention to their own feelings. If things continue like this, they will become more and more introverted, just like many of the better people who have passed their time. This is the reason why you are single in your marriage year.
3. The vision is too high
After a person becomes excellent, there is another characteristic, that is Arrogant, because he feels that he is excellent, and his excellence is recognized, then these boys will have a higher vision because of their arrogance.
The biggest problem for this type of boys is that they feelHe believes that he is perfect, so he will raise his sights.
Another problem with these boys is that they have the idea that what is supposed to come will always come. They like to wait passively and feel that their love will always come to them.
Precisely because of this, they have never met the person they expected in their hearts. This is not the most uncomfortable thing. What is the most uncomfortable thing? They meet someone who meets their conditions, but others look at them. If they don't like you, then it's because these boys have too high standards and have overestimated their own level. When you meet the person you like, the person must be very good, but the boy is actually not at the other person's level. Can it work? It definitely can't work.
In fact, in general, if you are such an excellent person and are still worried about not being able to find a girlfriend, it is best to first find out where your problems lie and make some adjustments. and change, get rid of these wrong thinking.
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