This is an era of fierce competition, and learning to take the initiative is an essential skill for everyone. The same is true for falling in love. If you have someone you like, you must know how to actively pursue it. So how can you catch up with the person you like?
How to chase the person you like?
1. Establish contact with the other party
This kind of contact can be online or offline. The core is that you have to find your own position. When many people pursue others, they will automatically enter the giving mode and have unreasonable expectations for the target's response, so the pursuit process is always repetitive.
When you want to pursue someone, try to lower your attitude a little. This lowering does not mean that you should be a licking dog, but that you need to manage what kind of identity and behavior you expect. Things, don't be impressed that you are pursuing her instead of already agreeing to be your boyfriend and girlfriend.
2. Don’t expose your sense of need too early
Relationships sometimes come naturally, and you don’t know where they started. When you want to pursue the other person in a big way, it will bring a lot of pressure to the other person. The other person may even reject you before you have time to do anything. Exposing your target prematurely will increase your pursuit. In terms of difficulty, it is very important for two people to understand and attract each other. And it takes a lot of time, so you can’t rush it. Of course, there are also cases where the relationship is confirmed within a short period of time, but the premise is actually mutual goodwill, which is different from one-sided pursuit.
3. The pursuit must have a sense of rhythm
When chasing the person you like, you cannot blindly rush forward. You can't always be timid and afraid to move forward. To mobilize the other person's emotions, when you can influence the other person's emotions, your pursuit will be half successful.
There must be rhythmic changes in the pursuit process. For example, you must seize the opportunity and run hot and cold. For example, you must play hard to get when you want to advance the relationship. The key to this technique is that the fact that you like the other person is always the same, but the process and rhythm of pursuit are not always consistent. If you chat with the other person every day, she may not be able to better understand how she feels about you. What is it, but suddenly for a day or two, because she can no longer maintain the original frequency of chatting due to other things, she may think, am I falling in love with you. The key point of the operation here is that you should not be suddenly and inexplicably cold, but must be reasonable.
4. Create opportunities to meet
You can just pass by where the other person works or pass by her home. and so on, to create some chance encounters and give the other party a sense ofCreate a feeling that you two are destined to each other and increase your favorability.
Many people like to give gifts when they are pursuing others, but sometimes they do not grasp the scale well and may not understand the other person's preferences well enough, so they may not be able to impress others. If you are not completely sure that the other person will like your gift, then we can try to spend it together. This will reduce the burden and pressure in the relationship as much as possible, make your relationship more relaxed and improve the comfort of the relationship.
In the end, we will choose to be with a person, it must be because that person can meet some of our needs, so when you want to chase someone, you can make a target by knowing yourself and the enemy.
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