How to flirt with a very cold girl- 3 tips to help you catch her

★ Posted on 12-14,2024



I obviously like a girl, but I am intimidated by her cold appearance. I am afraid of being rejected and dare not pursue her easily. In fact, it is not that difficult to chase a cold girl. So how should you flirt with a very cold girl?

1. Become friends with her first

Don’t be scared away by a girl’s so-called aloofness. There is no such thing as a truly aloof person. If this girl gives you the feeling that she is aloof, then either she doesn’t want to talk to you, or she is introverted and shy. Or there are other reasons.

In short, people have many sides. You have to get close to know them, right?

Therefore, it is necessary to become her friend first. For an aloof girl, maybe she is not very good at interpersonal communication and does not have many friends around her, so in fact, she is most likely to be a relatively flat person emotionally.

For such girls, don’t treat them like brothers and sisters as easily as you do with extroverted girls.

When dealing with an aloof girl, you should first get along with her slowly and don't make her feel threatened. If you two are colleagues, can you ask her to do you a small favor and treat her to a cup of milk tea?

If someone does you a big favor or invites them to a meal, wouldn’t that establish a relationship as a friend?

Secondly, when you first become friends, you don’t want to do it every day When posting messages of concern, just send a small amount appropriately. Don’t rush to post them. People will be afraid. If they annoy you, the gain will outweigh the losses!

Grasp the degree of concern, proceed step by step, and do it step by step. Don't expose your excessive neediness. Remember, let her accept you as a friend first, and then we can take the next step!

2. Take her to experience a new environment

If you want to see her in other states besides being cold, you must first leave the environment that makes her cold.

You can try taking her to a different place, such as going to a pet shop to pet a cat and letting her get close to the animals, or you can go to a bar to have a drink, relax, and sing. Singing, right?

We have so many choices, go to a few different places to liberate her nature, maybe she can be a little girl, maybe you can see the side of her that is not aloof. .

Being the only man who has seen her in different ways, do you think you will be different in her heart?

3. Show your uniqueness

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Girls like boys with bright spots, no matter how cold they are, she will not make an exception for you.

But, don’t show off too much. She will think you are too showy! The most mysterious thing is the looming one, right?

You have to make her curious about you and have the desire to explore you. As long as she's willing to study you, thenIt has naturally exceeded the scope of friendship!

For example, show your talents and hobbies in a small way in the voting circle, pay attention to the essence, and leave no trace! Be more low-key and connotative.

She likes to read books, so why don’t you read a few pages? She likes the piano, and you can’t play it, but you can also know a few pieces of music. She likes perfume, so you should also study it, right? Good but not deliberate is the highest level.

If you say that you really have no special skills and are too lazy to adapt to others, then let’s work on yourself and be a little different from time to time, okay?

If others Everyone wears plaid shirts, but you can wear casual clothes. Others drink at the party, so you can drink drinks, right? The premise is that they must be matched appropriately to make her look bright.

4. Provide her with timely help

When you think she needs care and help, show up as soon as possible in front of her.

For example, if you know she is sick, then you can send someone to take care of her as soon as possible, and don’t ask if she is okay.

As long as you are not her boyfriend, then someone like her who is accustomed to being independent will definitely tell you that she is fine, and it will be in vain to ask.

Of course, sending Nuan Nuan over does not mean that you are licking her. Let’s order until the Nuan Nuan is delivered. Don’t be so angry that you have to stay there to take care of her.

Isn’t it strange that it is inconvenient? Once the medicine is delivered, the person will leave. Believe me, she will thank you even more.

Aloof girls often just look aloof. Maybe they just smile less, but that doesn’t mean they are really cold.

You have to give yourself a chance and give her a chance, try to get close and understand, many times, the distance between you and love may really be just that small step.


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