A large number of boys who choose to go on a blind date still don’t know the girl very well. Even after the blind date, they don’t know what the girl is thinking. So if the girl on the blind date ignores you after the blind date, should you give up?
1. Reasons why girls on a blind date are indifferent
1. There is nothing that a girl on a blind date can see in you Advantages
If a girl clearly tells you that you are not suitable after a blind date, it may be that she does not see anything she likes in you.
After all, every girl who is willing to go on a blind date may have a psychological standard. If you do not meet the standard or are even far away, then of course she will not choose you.
If you want to know why she is so enthusiastic during a blind date, it is because she is a quality girl and is afraid that direct expression will make it difficult to end, so at this time you cannot dwell on why she doesn't like it. But think about how to improve yourself and make yourself better.
2. There are better choices around the girl on the blind date
Another situation is that the girl is coerced by family or friends into a blind date, but she already has the right person in her heart. She agreed to go out on a blind date with you just to complete the task, and she didn't want to make you feel embarrassed, so she tried to find a topic to chat with you. Maybe this will give you the illusion that she must be attracted to you, but in fact it is just to avoid embarrassment. Naturally, they will ignore you after the blind date is over.
3. Girls on blind dates are relatively slow to warm up
Girls who meet on blind dates have no emotional basis. If you expect to confirm the relationship after just a few days of chatting, you are too naive. Therefore, when contacting a blind date girl, you must first set your goal on how to become friends. After all, you may not even be as good as her colleagues in her eyes.
Chat with her as much as possible, make an appointment to meet her, and get to know her better to know if it is suitable. As for whether to give up, if you feel that many aspects suit you, you might as well stick with it for a while. Girls are slow to warm up emotionally. You need to let the girl get to know you better and gradually develop a liking for you before you can officially establish a relationship.
2. Should you give up if a girl on a blind date ignores you?
If a girl is really dissatisfied with you, then you should be able to clearly see that she is perfunctory and indifferent to you. manner. She may not talk much, and she won't agree to you asking her out. In this case, there is no point in continuing the pursuit.
If a girl is slow in chatting but she still replies to you, she will gladly accept it if you ask her out. Such a blind date girl is just slow to mess with. As long as you pursue her sincerely and give her time, There is a great opportunity.
A blind date was originally a meeting between two people who did not know each other.Whether or not they are suitable together cannot be seen in a short period of time. You cannot arbitrarily say that if a girl on a blind date ignores you because she is dissatisfied with you, you must determine whether it is suitable through subsequent development. If you give up rashly, it will only make the girl happy that she doesn't have much enthusiasm for you.