Nowadays, many boys who are eager to get out of singles have embarked on the road of blind date. However, when they meet a blind date girl they like, they have no way to pursue her, so a great opportunity is wasted. So how can a boy succeed in a blind date?
The following editor will tell you three ways to catch up with a girl on a blind date. step.
The first step: sort out your appearance
If you want to have a successful blind date, the first impression you give to the other party is very important, so your own The appearance must be sorted out.
① Hairstyle: Be sure to go to a high-end hair salon to create a clean and stylish man, or ask a senior hairstylist to recommend it, but never use electric dyeing or perming.
② Body hair: Finely trim body hair such as eyebrows, beard, facial hair, nose hair, etc.
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Dressing: If you really don’t know how to dress, you can’t go wrong by imitating male celebrities. Don’t wear a suit and tie. Overall, you should focus on being fit and neat. At the same time, pay attention to cleaning your shoes and wear a watch that is suitable for today's outfit. In the eyes of women, watches and shoes are a man's face.
Step 2: Pay attention to details
1. Don’t be late
p>Not only should you not be late for a blind date, but you must arrive first if you can and get familiar with the surrounding environment. If you have a blind date at home, the approach is the same.
Arriving early will give girls a sense of punctuality and reliability. After getting familiar with the environment in advance, they can also better receive girls and give them a certain sense of security.
At the same time, you can also bring a good book, such as "The Ordinary World", "Besieged City", "Influence", etc. It is best that you have actually read it, while you are waiting for the woman. Read it carefully, and girls will be attracted by your serious attitude from a distance before entering the scene.
2. Avoid making mistakes
Generally, the process of blind dates introduced by parents is like this: everyone sits down together and chats briefly, and then you and the girl will be alone. time.
So when both parents are talking, you only need to focus on the parents’ side. Don’t keep staring at the woman. When your parents introduce you to each other, just keep smiling. , just say hello.
When both parents leave, the main event begins!
Then please pay attention to your words and deeds at this time. Not everyone can maximize their talent for flirting. Not everyone is an expert at seducing girls, so our basic rule is: make fewer mistakes!
For exampleYour limbs: Lean back as much as possible, relax your muscles, and avoid covering your face, playing with your fingers, scratching, shaking your legs, crossing your legs, or lying down!
Step 3: Find the right topic and quickly break the ice
Many boys on blind dates tend to make such a mistake. Just talk to the other person about your views on marriage, values, and love. Please! You two haven’t even exchanged your horoscopes yet. It would be great if you two could sit together and chat without being embarrassed. Put less pressure on her!
What everyone cares about most is themselves, and the topics they are most interested in must be related to things they like. So what is the fastest way to break the ice between people? It is praise!
We You can praise girls like this:
① "You have big eyes, they are very beautiful." After the girl responds, you can say, "Especially the dark circles under your eyes, they are so charming." Add you The evil smile.
② "Your skin is very good, how do you take care of it?" After the girl responds, you can say, "So this is how you take care of yourself. The first time I saw you, I was scared. I jumped, I thought you were underage. "
③ "You look a bit like a cartoon character, very cute." Who is the girl asking? You can just say, "You look like McDull, I like it. "
As we said before, during the first meeting, you should not put too much pressure on the other party. After successfully breaking the ice, you should be prepared to extend the topic later.
The extended operations of these topics are actually traceable, such as talking about financial management, study, work, social interaction, travel, pets, cooking skills, talents, quality of life, drama, etc.
During the chat process, we must also control the direction of the topic, which must be beneficial to us. Chatting is a display of value. How much value you can show will determine how much the other party will give you. feedback.
For example:
Male: When I see you, I think of my classmates in junior high school, just like you. Wearing a pair of glasses/has a pair of big eyes/with a ponytail/, I really liked bullying her at that time
(interrupt, waiting for the girl to ask questions)
Female: Later How is she?
(Successfully hooked)
Male: Later, when I grew up and read a lot of books, I realized that boys of that age bully a girl because they like her. She would bully her.
Female: Haha, okay~
(The girl did not answer the call, she seemed not interested in this topic and needs further testing)
Male: Then What about you? Have you ever been bullied by a naughty kid when you were a child?
Female: It’s okay. What happened when I was a child doesn’t have a deep impact.
(Something is wrong, I can’t pester anymore, I need to change the topic quickly)
Male: Haha, yes, I have been busy since I grew up, and I am not as leisurely as before. This goes back and forth. For more than half a year, I thought I could spend some time with my parents when I returned home, but who knew I would have to make my parents worry about my life-long event.
Girl: Yes, my parents are too. They are all urging me to find it quickly. It’s so annoying~
(This topic is interesting, and the girl’s response shows her desire to tell her story. )
Male: No, a girl as charming as you should have no shortage of suitors, right?
(Continue to guide)
Female : Hi...I feel like there are too few that are suitable...none are particularly good.
Male: What do you think of me? There are not many people who are as filial, handsome, young and kind as me these days~
(Pair it with your evil smile to make the other person realize that this is just a joke, not a fart)
Female: Hahaha, shameless
(Successfully liven up the atmosphere, the girl is right You already have a certain window, you can continue chatting)