I thought I was having a good chat with a girl, but suddenly one day I found out that she had blocked me silently. This problem left many boys puzzled and they couldn’t figure it out no matter how hard they thought. Offended her. Next, let’s analyze what is the mentality behind girls silently blocking you.
There may be many reasons why a girl silently blocks you. But there is a high probability event that the girl thinks that you are interested in her, and then out of the mentality of "for all suitors, unless I happen to like him, otherwise I am disgusted with him" (note, this mentality is not very normal in the first place, But girls often do this), and become repulsive towards you, and then block you.
At this time, you are probably going to complain: "When did I pursue her?" However, for many girls, if you are a little friendly to her, she will misunderstand you. What’s interesting is, “Be nice to her a little bit.”
"I thought you were interested in her" is usually a weapon used by women to put men down, but the reality is often just the opposite.
Continue Next, let’s talk about the behavior of “blocking” a man. What is the purpose of (some) women “blocking” a man? A common explanation for women is to “prevent harassment”, but if you look at the chat history, you may not have taken the initiative to find him for a month. Once, where does "harassment" come from? Some women also explained that "cut off all ambiguity", but it is obvious that a man with a normal IQ (especially a college student), how can he think that everyone is ambiguous because he "has not blocked"? Women's The explanation cannot stand up to scrutiny.
So what is the purpose of some women blocking you? You can first think about it, how does it feel for you to be blocked? Humiliation, right? Maybe when you are not blocked. You may not notice her, but you will feel shame after blocking you.
Obviously, blocking is a weapon to hurt others in the eyes of some women, and vice versa. , many women themselves are very sensitive to "blocking", and sometimes women will complain that others block them. This shows that some women regard "blocking" as a means of hurting others. < /p>
People with emotional experience will say this: "When you fail to pursue a woman, what you lose is not a woman, but a circle of women." - Why do you lose a circle of women? Because The person who rejects you will hinder you and prevent you from developing a romantic relationship with the people she knows! This shows from one side that some women have an inexplicable hatred towards the men they reject.
So the problem is this: First of all, some women think that you want to pursue her, and then out of "feeling for the man who was rejected by them." "hate mentality"This mentality hates you and then uses blacklisting as a means to hurt you. You didn't do anything wrong, it's just that she hates you out of some abnormal mentality, it's that simple.
Seeing this, some people will say, "This woman gave me a good first impression, how could she be such a person?"
Please understand that you do not need to doubt your own vision. Women are educated from a young age and learn quickly about appearances, so no matter how shady a person is, they all know how to make a good first impression (it's even a routine). It's normal for men to be confused by appearances. The key is that when you know that she really hates you, you have to see her face clearly and decisively give up all thoughts of "benevolence, justice" and "demeanor" towards her. Stop caring about her evaluation of you, recognize that she is your opposite, and let go as soon as possible.