Most boys think that it is difficult to chase a cold girl. The more you take the initiative to chase her, the colder she will become. But in fact, you are just using the wrong method. It’s really hard to catch her if you just take the initiative unilaterally, so you might as well try to build a good attraction and let her take the initiative. So what should be done specifically?
1. Better image
Human beings are visual animals !A girl, even if she is aloof, she is the same. Some brothers may say: People should not be judged by their appearance. It is wrong to judge people by their appearance.
But you must know that this world is cruel. When most ordinary people look at others, they still build their first impression based on their appearance and use it as a basis for judging them without knowing the other person.
So, judging people by their appearance, you can criticize, despise, or disagree with others, but you cannot ignore the objective fact that others will judge you by your appearance, and you cannot resist it.
As long as your appearance is good enough, girls will naturally be attracted to explore you.
There is no need for you to wear gold and silver, or even to make your face look handsome. As long as it's clean, decent and elegant, half the battle is won. If you put a little more effort into matching your outfit, it'll basically be perfect.
The most taboo thing about a person’s image is being sloppy. What does sloppy mean? When you hear this word, you may have an image like this: dandruff floating on the oily surface like snowflakes, with different lengths. His hair and beard were all patchy and uneven as if they had been gnawed by a dog. He was wearing big baggy pants and a pair of flip-flops, and he also exuded an indescribable smell. This image was as disgusting as it was possible.
In fact, in the minds of aloof girls, cleanliness and decentness are not just a matter of taking a shower and wearing clean clothes. This can only be regarded as the most basic thing. If you want to gain points in the heart of a cold girl, it is not enough.
The kind of cleanliness and tidiness that can add value to your image in the minds of cool girls requires that the styles, colors, and materials of your clothes match each other, and preferably also match your personal style and appearance.
For example, if you wear black trousers but reveal a pair of red socks, your whole body is covered with famous brands, and girls will dismiss it because she feels it is embarrassing to stand with you;
If your face has clear lines and is as tough as a knife or an axe, if this manly appearance is paired with a Japanese-Korean style hairstyle, it can be said to be completely ruined and incongruous. But on the other hand, if you have a soft and fresh appearance, a tough-looking hairstyle such as a board-cun hairstyle will make you look several years younger. Of course, this does not mean that you will look younger, but it will destroy your sense of maturity. Make it difficult for girls to find a sense of security with you.
If your image can help you successfully attract attention and stimulate girls’ desire to get to know you, then how aboutBeing able to keep her depends on your soft and hard skills.
So you still need to do two things:
2. Clever language
Chatting with aloof girls requires skills, don’t always There is one thing to say, straight to the point. There are too many people who are too "upright" to keep this cold girl from being interested in him.
Of course, this is definitely not for you to learn how to lie or brag to girls. The word "upright" refers to the fact that when chatting with girls, people always say some obvious things, starting from a point where one can guess the ending at a glance, which makes people lose the desire to continue the conversation.
For example: "Are you off work?" This greeting is fine as an opening statement, but after the girl answers "off work", you have to ask "Have you gone home?" "Have you eaten?" ?" This is very "upright".
Because girls will definitely have to answer: After returning home and eating, what else do you want to talk about next? It’s nothing more than: What to eat? It’s gone so fast and so late.
Just like throwing a bean into a pipe, the bean will immediately fall out of the other end of the pipe and be gone. You can't leave a good impression on girls, so no matter how hard you try or how sincere you are, you can't get closer to them.
What does clever language look like?
Let’s use this opening statement as an example. The girl said “down”.
You can use subjunctive declaratives to construct a hypothetical environment: "It seems that your job is quite easy." Give this aloof girl a break, and she will talk to you about Something about her own work.
You can also change the target and create branch topics, such as: "I really envy you for getting off work on time every day. You know, I haven't enjoyed this kind of treatment for a long time." At this time, girls will definitely wonder why you If you can't get off work on time, then she will talk to you about your problems.
You can also play cards without following the routine: "You actually get off work now!" The black girl asked, "Aren't you asking me if I got off work? Why are you so surprised? This kind of unclear emotion will force you to She came to ask why.
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