When it comes to how to chase girls, many boys come up with the three-piece package of "date, give gifts, and confess love." Although this process is not a big problem, do you really know how to date, how to give gifts, and how to confess your love? If Before it reaches the heat, you may not be able to use the first set of your three-piece set. So today I will tell you how to properly pursue the girl you like in daily interactions.
1. Understand each other’s preferences
When it comes to dating, many boys have this Confused: Why can’t I make another date after one date?
In fact, there are many things to pay attention to when dating. For example, knowing the restaurants and tastes that girls like can greatly improve the happiness of dating, thus improving the happiness of dating. Increase her favorability towards you.
For example, if girls don’t like eating animal offal, they shouldn’t serve it to others when eating hot pot, and it’s best not to order it. Don't try to play on girls' hot spots.
Speaking of surprises, many boys are really "constantly surprised" when it comes to giving gifts.
Every Valentine’s Day and Chinese Valentine’s Day, the fancy gifts for straight men on the Internet are really enough to make my day.
So before giving gifts, you must do your homework and understand what kind of gifts girls like. For example:
(1) "Flashy".
Many married men complain that the things girls want are too impractical, so the gifts they give their wives are either broccoli or aprons and gloves. How should I put it, having this sense of ritual is better than not remembering it at all.
But for single boys, it is better not to try this kind of "death-seeking" behavior easily, and honestly understand what girls like.
For example, if a girl likes to collect dolls, or likes flowers, or has a special ornament, they can be used as gifts.
Of course, if you really don’t know what she likes, you can refer to a principle: buy a small one at the same price rather than a large one. For example:
If you have a budget of 500 yuan, you would rather buy a lipstick or perfume than a bag of the same price.
Because small things will look more refined and textured, which can not only achieve the purpose of pleasing girls, but will not be too grand and embarrass both parties.
(2) Pragmatic.
Practical gifts actually include more than just broccoli and aprons, there are many choices.
For example, if a girl likes painting, you can give her a paintbrush; if a girl likes sports, you can give sneakers; if a girl likes drinking, you can choose a bottle of her favorite wine...
Of course, in the early days, it is not recommended that you give gifts that are too expensive. On the one hand, it will be difficult for girls to put them away.There is pressure, but on the other hand, boys also need to pay attention to safety, you know.
And when the relationship is not yet established at the beginning, gifts actually play a role in bringing the relationship closer. If they are too expensive, they will deteriorate the relationship.
(3) Commemorative.
For example, a souvenir of a place you went to together, a small handmade gift for her, etc.
Many people often ignore the importance of dating, thinking that dating means watching movies and eating. In fact, choosing a suitable date location will not only heat up your relationship quickly, but also create a relationship that belongs to both of you. Unforgettable memories, gifts are more targeted.
As long as you have shared memories, girls will think of you when they see this gift in the future.
I remember that in the social variety show "It's Nice to Meet You", there was a segment where boys took the lead in dating. I have to say that these boys are really good at arranging it.
A boy chose a date room in an art studio, where there were many cats. It happened that the girl also knew how to draw and liked cats.
So the two of them chatted and drew, and finally gave each other their own drawings. What a sweet scene. Moreover, such a gift cannot be bought with money. The main reason is that it contains unforgettable memories for two people.
In short, understanding girls’ preferences is also to prevent us from wasting our efforts, right?
2. Be clear What’s on the other person’s mind
Whether it’s flirting with a girl or confessing, you can’t just blindly rely on your feelings. You must do something you’re sure of, so you must first understand the other person’s mind.
Does she also like you? Does she like you or does she treat you as a friend?
How to judge?
The first point is to judge whether the girl likes you or not. If I don't like you, you can actually feel it in daily interactions. For example:
Generally speaking, they will not refuse your invitation, they will be very active when chatting with you, they will joke with you, they will dress up carefully when they meet you, etc. In fact, it can all show that a girl is interested in you. Feeling good.
Of course, good impression does not necessarily mean liking you, it may also mean that they just treat you as a friend. How to tell the difference?
The most obvious point is whether he will be ambiguous with you. For example, some words that can easily cause misunderstanding:
"You are so handsome, how come you don't have a girlfriend?"
"You have such a good temper, if my future boyfriend is with you Just the same. "
It's obvious that I like you. Friends wouldn't talk about such intimate topics, let alone such an ambiguous tone.
Friends usually look like this:
“Hey, are you going on the weekend? I want to drink, do you want to date me? Take your girlfriend with you.Son. "
"What's the matter with you? You're still single. Do you want me to introduce you to you?"
"I'm telling you, I have a sister who has recently become single again. Do you want me to help you match her up?"
This is how you match others up, and you won't be given the chance to have any unwanted thoughts about her.
You are basically sure that the other person is interested in you. Wouldn’t it be easier to succeed if you approach something interesting again?
3. Show care in details
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Tell boys, if you want to attract a girl you like, you must make use of every bit of life and grasp the details. It will be more effective than trying to create countless dates. No one can let girls. It's "details control".
How to make a girl lose her heart in the details?
For example, take a photo of the other person while having breakfast. , ask her what she had for breakfast? If she says she didn’t eat it, quietly order a takeaway to be delivered to her company.
If she says she ate something, ask: “Did you make it yourself? That’s awesome!” “You like to eat this, I’ll remember it!”
Look, what’s important is not what you eat, but understanding the other person and letting them know that you want to know more about them. Life.
When eating, adding water to each other, handing tissues, etc. are already basic operations. Excellent boys will observe the needs of girls in advance and then hand them over just right instead of waiting for girls. I'll look for you later.
If you are going to watch a movie, remember to prepare a coat in advance, because it is quite cold in the cinema.
If you encounter differences of opinion when chatting. , don’t hold on, make a joke first, and then find a chance to explain your thoughts.
Because girls are easily anxious emotionally, and if they continue to be tough at this time, they will easily get angry. So you must know how to control your emotions first and then deal with things.
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