1. What does wingman mean?
Wingman originally refers to the aircraft or helicopter that follows the lead aircraft in an air formation. But now it is mostly used to refer to people who can help you in the process of recovering or chasing girls.
For example, when Boy A is chasing a girl, he asks Boy B for help, cooperating with him to attract the girl’s attention, liven up the atmosphere, etc. The male B here can be called the "wingman".
Learn more professional love knowledge, and if you have any emotional questions, you can add Chat privately at any time and I will help you answer your questions. You can also receive a free chat course.
2. What is the role of wingmen when chasing girls?
Wingmen can help you highlight your social certification when you are chasing girls.
If you use your same-sex friends as your wingmen, it shows that you are not a marginalized person in society and your popularity is good; if you use your opposite-sex friends as your wingmen, it not only shows that you are popular with the opposite sex, but also shows that you are many people. The men that girls accept are the ones that girls like. You must have a lot that girls like, and girls are willing to like boys that other girls also like. This is because of conformity out of a sense of security; if it is If you use high-value same-sex or opposite-sex friends as your wingman, others will also think you are a high-value person.
In fact, chatting online or dating girls are part of social interaction. This part is often subjective. It is subjective and easy to influence, so girls usually have low interest in this type of social interaction.
For example, if you say that you are excellent, the girl only knows this concept but has not experienced it, so the shock effect you give her cannot impress her.
This is also the reason why boys who show off flashy sports cars and luxurious houses still can’t seduce the girls they like.
In our daily lives, we often see fat, ugly, or even frustrated boys with a beautiful and temperamental girlfriend. As the folk saying goes: all the good cabbage is eaten by pigs.
This is because their social skills are strong enough and their social certification is high.
What is social verification?
A person's positive traits are constantly reflected by objective factors in the social environment To set off and strengthen, so that others can feel that he is a person of great status and resources.
Social certification is a strong signal that men have an identity in the first impression, and it can generate attraction very efficiently.
People with social certification are also very attractive to girls.
There must be boys like this around us.I have quite a lot of friends around me, and they all have good relationships, and they are usually quite warm. Some of them were even kids when they were young, and there is no shortage of girls for such boys.
This is the charm of social authentication.
For example, Feng Xiaogang and Xu Qing in the movie "Old Pao" are classic cases of social authentication. Just use the skills of an iron-blooded man to make a temperamental goddess like Xu Qing surrender. This is the alpha male factor.
Or the student union president in college can be said to be the most powerful person in the school. There are many stories about the student union president circulating in the school. Is there anyone who wouldn’t like such a boy?
The charm of a third party is very great. When a boy pursues a girl, he will first get her best friend. In fact, his best friend becomes your wingman.
Social certification is constantly strengthened by objective factors in a social environment, allowing girls to feel your charm and value. The first impression on a girl creates enough attraction.
For example, when you have dinner with a girl, the boss takes the initiative to greet you and arranges the best seat. When the girl sees other people's recognition and respect for you, she inadvertently promotes herself.
So what are we going to do?
If you are still studying in school, then you Find a way to become a popular figure in the school. We can strengthen our own value through clubs, relationships with teachers, and student unions.
Or show off your style at the school party and let everyone recognize you.
If you are in the workplace, you can get to know some restaurant owners, milk tea shop managers, nightclub managers, etc. through your daily experience.
If the city where you live often has some concerts and celebrity performances, we can even make friends with some scalpers.
This kind of social certification may not seem important, but it can enhance our value during the dating process.
Girls will be very curious, and this desire to explore can easily be transformed into love.
It is also very good to have a wingman of the opposite sex. If a high-quality girl likes you, it means that your value is very high. This competitiveness will make girls jealous and even dominate you.
The higher your score as a wingman, the better you are.
Because you can actually attract high-scoring girls, then girls don’t have to spend time testing you and directly attack.
❋ Tags: