In the eyes of many straight men, girls are always angry for no reason and are difficult to coax. But in fact, many times a girl is angry not for no reason, but because you did something to make her angry, such as:
1. "Straight Man" style chat
Regardless Should you check your household registration from the beginning, or should you reason with your girlfriend when she quarrels, or should you reason with a girl when she complains to you...
Sometimes boys They are also very innocent. This is not a problem of emotional intelligence. Sometimes they have no malicious intentions, but they just think it is normal to do so.
Because boys’ thinking is rational, everything is a solution to a problem in their eyes, so they have a strong purpose when doing things:
I want to understand you better I'm going to ask for your personal information. If I want to end the quarrel, I'll tell you the facts and reason with you. If I want to resolve your negative energy, then I'll enlighten you.
But girls’ thinking is emotional. On some issues, they value experience more. Sometimes being direct does not fit with their style of doing things, so there will be great conflicts:
Sometimes they chat with boys until they are so fascinated that they may not even know his name or where he is from. The point they struggle with is "you are actually mean to me". In fact, they just want you to be a listening audience or someone who comes to you. Comrades who complained together.
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2. Not caring about family
Although it is because I want to give girls a better life, so I immerse myself in it She neglects to accompany her at work, but such behavior can easily make girls angry.
Boys value results, so they feel that temporarily sacrificing companionship time in exchange for better material conditions in the future is the real responsibility, so they will sacrifice a lot of time and energy to focus on their careers. ;
But what girls value is the process, so they feel that of course they have to make money, but they cannot lose themselves because of the process. If the two of them end up lying on the sofa tired after get off work, they can’t move. , so what’s the point of all this.
Long-term relationships require not only a realistic material foundation, but also spiritual and emotional companionship.
Therefore, for boys, it is necessary to strengthen the relationship between two people in stages. Even if you feel that it is not the time to enjoy the fruits of victory, go out for a trip every three to five days, and go to a good restaurant to give gifts on anniversaries. Give the other person a long-cherished gift to let them know that although you are immersed in work, you are still thinking of her.
For girls, it is also necessary toUnderstand the difficulty of boys, understand their pressure, and don’t always think about letting him accompany you. At this age, both you and him need to struggle. Although it will reduce some enjoyment in the short term, this is long-term planning and a responsible attitude towards the future. .
3. Spend money and time on things that seem childish
All girlfriends Love rival: games, sneakers, figures.
When girls are criticized for being prodigal, the most powerful weapon is to take up these three banners to fight back:
I buy cosmetics and skin care products to make myself beautiful, so I buy them Buying clothes is all about looking good on you. Isn’t it more wasteful for you to spend money on top-up to buy skins than me? What’s the use of that thing?
Also, you spend so much money on a pair of shoes just to put them in the cupboard. If you don’t wear it, what is this waste?
Whenever this happens, I will think of the classic saying: A man will remain a boy until he dies.
In fact, in the hearts of boys, no matter how old they are, there is a childishness, so they will be very mature and stable in some things, but in some things, they seem to be possessed, pursuing things that are not cost-effective. The "feelings" of words.
4. Longing for love but seeming too lazy to get along
Before being single, brothers liked to chat at gatherings Which girl have I been flirting with recently, who have I fallen in love with recently, are there any opportunities to ask her out, etc. However, after being single or even getting married, this group of people started to complain about the one in their family who is really unreasonable, and they I wish I could go and have fun with my brothers all night long.
This has even formed a meme: if it is not a physiological need, boys seem to prefer playing with boys.
This is what makes many girls crazy: It was you who chased me, and it was you who confessed to me, and those disgusting words were all said by you yourself, but now that we are together, you are like this again Attitude, go and live with your gang of friends, I won't serve you anymore.
Because in long-term relationships, women are much more insecure than men, so over time, most girls will become more and more clinging to their boyfriends. However, genes determine that men are born with uninhibited love. The Lord of freedom, so after a long-term relationship, they showed a tendency to break away.
5. Carrying a lot of things but not saying anything
This is a typical difference in thinking between men and women. It is also the trigger for many couples to have conflicts.
What girls can’t stand is why boys always feel like they have nothing to say. Boys never understand what there is to say if they can’t solve the problem.
Because boys meetWhen there is a problem, people like to close themselves off and either solve the problem or calm their thoughts. They feel that there is no result in one thing, and it is impossible to find a solution from the sky just by talking about it.
But girls are different. If they feel uncomfortable holding something in their hearts, I must say it out, even if it takes me a long time to say what it should be like.
Gay men should reflect on this matter. No matter what, girls who actively want to know you still care about you. It is true that talking about some problems cannot solve the problem, but holding it back is not good for yourself. Nothing good comes of it.
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