Even if you are on a blind date, if you don’t have any skills, you will encounter many obstacles, making it difficult for the blind date to succeed. In fact, love skills and blind date skills are interlinked. So how should love skills be used in blind dates?
1. Chat Chapter
① Open questions
If you want to know the other person’s address, don’t ask,
“Where do you live?” (This will instantly arouse girls’ attention. Disgusted)
But ask this.
"Looking at your circle of friends, you should be from the south, right?"
At this time, the other party will reply.
"Yes! (Then you will know the information you want)"
"I feel that you look very gentle, like a Jiangnan girl"
< p> Your original purpose is to know the other person’s hometown. If you ask vague questions, it will make the other person think, ah! Maybe you are just a little interested in her, and if you praise her, she will be more willing to chat with you, and Continue your conversation.② Express feelings
If you want to know whether the other person likes reading, then don’t talk like this.
"Do you like xxx (work)?"
But ask this.
"I saw xxx (writer)'s works posted in your circle of friends. I really like xxx (writer)'s xxx (works)"
At this time, she will answer.
“Ah? I haven’t seen it yet, it should be pretty good too.”
In this way, you can arouse her desire to continue chatting with you.
③ Try to like you instead of me
If you want to express your affection, don’t say I love you directly. In fact, As long as you test her attitude, you can probably determine whether she likes you.
For example, you can say
"By the way, I found a Sichuan restaurant that definitely suits your taste"
"Hmm? Where is it?"
"xxxx, do you want to go?"
If she answers that she wants to go, or does not refuse directly and does not want to go with you, then it means that she still has a crush on you.
④Emotional upgrade
During the chatting process, we spend most of the time talking about each other's status. If we are in the chatting status for a long time, then the two people will not have any emotions. What an emotional connection.
No matter how much you chat, it is impossible for two people to get closer to each other, so at this time, you have to try to have some emotional ups and downs in chatting.
For example, if the other party particularly likes a type of movie,
You can pretend to express disdain for this kind of movie, and then sublimate your emotions to refute what you said before.
For example:
“You ran so fast just now!”
“Because you were in a hurry!”
“I I thought you were anxious to see me”
“Your hat today”
“What’s wrong!”
“It matches your shoes perfectly”
"Hahaha"
This is also considered an emotional upgrade during the chat. It can create emotions during the chat, make the chat more interesting, and make the other party more willing to chat with you.
2. Upgrading the relationship
If you have the opportunity to meet offline, try not to mention the location If you have tested the other person's ideas over time and invited the other person to meet
Then you can bring about a sense of emotional attachment through contact. First of all, you must understand the other person's attitude towards physical contact. Good and appropriate contact will Rapidly upgrading the relationship will also give girls what they need most - a sense of protection (a type of security).
Then you need to pay attention to the time of contact and the purpose of contact.
I split the contact into four parts
(1) Set goals: That is, your goal is to create a space first, where two people can be in a closed (cinema) or open ( Pedestrian street, but two people are close).
Your goal at this point is contact (preferably inadvertently).
(2) Split goal: that is, you need to gradually change the position of your contact, so as to make girls feel the emotional stimulation like a roller coaster downhill.
The order of physical contact is shoulders, hair, head, forearms, hands, and face (increasing layer by layer).
(3) Feedback: You need to decide whether to take a step forward or take a step back based on the girl’s reaction. This is very important. If the girl responds to your contact, it means that she is willing to go through with you. Physical interaction.
In this process, a girl will change from finding you interesting to thinking that you understand her. And your purpose of upgrading the relationship has been achieved.
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