Many people think that love will delay their career, because falling in love will distract people from their energy. But in fact, if falling in love delays your career, it only means that you have chosen the wrong partner, or your time planning is not in place. Especially for a 20-year-old boy.
I have seen many self-made couples. When they first got together, they were also working hard on their careers, but they didn't delay their relationship at all - after returning home, one immersed himself in studying and the other worked on his side job, without delaying anything.
On weekends, take two or three hours to go shopping or eat, relax yourself, and not delay your relationship - even if you are a workaholic, I don’t believe that you can work and study 24 hours a day, 7 days a week, even eat, chat and go shopping. There is no time.
And a significant other who is really suitable for you and can understand you will really not be careful to see you busy at work and stop you from seriously working for the future - I think all girls cannot accept that their boyfriend is busy at work. And learning, I think there's a very rigid bias against girls.
And I think good love can really help each of us go further: a good partner will relieve a lot of pressure when you struggle, let you feel the warmth of companionship, and in the process of growing up , your emotional bond will become deeper and deeper.
Secondly, I feel that many people are dishonest to themselves.
Many people attribute the reason why they are single to the fact that I have to work hard for my future, and falling in love takes up too much time. Is this the case?
I have seen too many people use the future as a shield to avoid a relationship and responsibility.
Because of their low self-esteem, they feel that their careers are not doing well and that they have no future. They feel that they cannot give each other a future, so they tell their other half that I can’t delay you and let’s break up;
< p> They are obviously not in love, obviously impatient, but openly say that the other half is procrastinating their fight, and when they break up, they tell the other half that I want to seize the time to prepare for the future, and emotional things are too much of a waste of my time;Others clearly like someone, but the uncertainty of their future has become a curse in their hearts. They don’t even have the courage to tell their loved ones that I think you are very good and I like you very much;
More people actually have psychological shadows and are afraid of intimacy, but they don’t want to face it, so they Always striving for the future to numb yourself and avoid problems.
The reason why I am so serious is to tell everyone that love and career should not be an alternative at any time. .
A beautiful love is a stumbling block for your future.
I hope those who have low self-esteem can realize: You don’t need to be successful in your career or have a promising future. As long as you are kind and sincere, you are worthy of being loved and you are qualified to say love;
I hope that those who use delaying the future as a shield can break up with each other in a grand manner and not give others a label that they do not believe in;
I hope that we will not limit our choices at the beginning and avoid The real question is, find the right person, love yourself, work together, work together.
Our world is so small, will a job or a future plan occupy our lives and crowd out our love?
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