Some people are very innocent in love, but some people are actually very narrow-minded in love. Will a simple person suffer in love? Is it good to be in love simply? Let’s analyze and answer for you below.
Being simple in love is actually a very good quality, but it does make you more likely to suffer losses. Do you know why?
1. It’s easy to suffer losses if you are in a simple relationship
If you like someone, especially, and think that the other person is good in everything, then you basically won’t be able to handle her. This truth is actually extremely simple, because as long as you really like someone, your state will become manic and no one else can persuade you. Always immerse yourself in your own world and then imagine the other person. Tell her that this is good, that is good, and who will she look like when she gives birth to a child... It is even like forming a small religion of her own, convincing herself, worshiping herself, and making it look like the real thing.
And at this time, no matter how close friends or brothers are, they can’t persuade her. I can only suffer this by myself and atone for my sins. But this kind of people are actually relatively rare, because they are stubborn and accept death, which is definitely a very rare quality in this information age. If you use the right method and a little guidance, you can counterattack quickly.
I can only say that it is rare for people to maintain a certain degree of simplicity in their emotions, as long as they don’t make mistakes in the general direction. I'm afraid you may not look innocent, but you are actually very innocent.
2. Love requires increased resistance to blows
If you simply like someone, in today's Internet In an interconnected information society, problems are likely to arise. This does not necessarily call on everyone to raise fish, as raising fish will also have side effects. Human emotion is a philosophy that can never be explained clearly. You don't know what is wrong at all. When people are in emotions, they must enrich themselves and add some experience to themselves.
Or add some resistance to blows, so you don’t get hurt first, or don’t lose your mentality. Stabilize the chassis first, and there will definitely be a solution next. If you are infatuated, you will definitely make mistakes, and you will no longer be you, not the normal you. Why can't your emotional problems be solved by your friends, besties, and brothers?
3. You need to have more contact with girls when you are in love
I really sincerely give a piece of advice to all boys. , don’t pester a girl. If you pester a girl to save a girl, it’s not because she is unique. In some situations I've been exposed to, in the end, it wasn't even because the boy loved her, but because you were unwilling to give in.
The chips in your hand are too small, as if you just started a business with only one or two people. If one person has an accident, the entire structure will collapse because there will be no one to replace him. On the other hand, in large companies, there is no fear of someone leaving because there is someone available at any time.Can substitute and constantly attract new people to join the team.
Just like when we only had one girl, we were very afraid of her leaving us, but if we had twenty or thirty girls, you wouldn’t care about the situation of a girl at all, and you would find that you become Gotta be charming.
Furthermore, many boys told me that they didn’t know how to chat and asked me if I had any quick tips. I told him if I did, and The fastest way is to talk more when you have a basic foundation. If you talk more, you will know how to adapt. After living for 20 years, I have talked to two or three girls. You said how to improve quickly, so let yourself be in love. The most popular people in the market should have more contact with girls. This is absolutely true.
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