Dog licking is a popular word on the Internet, which means that the other person has no good impression of you, and repeatedly puts a hot face on a cold butt without any dignity or bottom line.
They can make the other party have no response, and still insist on being polite and attentive; they can eat instant noodles for a month, but also buy expensive gifts for the other party; even if they have made up their minds ten thousand times, they will not No matter how humble he is, he immediately starts wagging his tail when the other party shows kindness...
As the saying goes: Poor people must be hateful. Self-impression is a common problem among dog lickers. They often make self-sacrificial efforts in the hope of moving the other person, while ignoring the other person's real needs and feelings.
So it is not difficult for everyone to find that many boys are issued "good guy cards" after failing to pursue girls.
Then how can you not appear too aloof or become a bitch when chasing girls?
1. Law of Attraction
The so-called attraction is to make the opposite sex have the three feelings of "pleasure, arousal, and addiction".
Pleasure mainly depends on your charm points, such as body and appearance; to achieve arousal and addiction, it does not rely on your inherent "charm points", but the "process" of your interaction with her.
Why is the saying that "Since ancient times, deep love cannot be retained, only tricks can win people's hearts"? Do girls like scumbags? Of course not, it's just that they have their preference in scumbags.
What you should do is attract. Only attracting can hold a girl’s attention, take root in a girl’s heart, and make her miss you day and night.
Your humor, sincerity, kindness, motivation, and maturity are the tools to make a girl fall in love with you.
2. Don’t leapfrog
There is a saying that “seek your own position in your own position”, in relationships, The same is true.
If you act like a boyfriend when you are just a friend, it will only make girls think: "Since he is so good to me now, why should I bother to turn him into a boyfriend?" What?"
So you became the spare tire without any surprise.
Don’t go beyond the next level. Overstepping the level will lead to kneeling and licking. Do what you should do and what you shouldn’t do at the stage of your relationship, and don’t do anything.
Let her know that if she wants to get more preferential treatment from you, she can only do so after becoming your girlfriend.
3. Obscuration of demand
The word "sense of demand" is really easy to create pressure on people , especially in the pursuit stage, if boys keep exposing their needs too much, it will be difficult for girls not to feel disgusted.
You have to know that as a girl, she needs care and attention in a relationship. What she wants is someone who can solve her needs, not an extra licking dog.
In the pursuit stage, what you need to do is to make your needs as vague as possible and cleverly satisfy the girl's vanity. For example, "Will you be my girlfriend?" This kind of question is easy for people to raise. Feeling of oppression.
You can use "I hope to be by your side and protect you" instead, turning passivity into initiative and letting the girl feel your sincerity. If the girl is also interested in you, it will be a matter of course for her to be together. .
4. Improve self-worth
People who are willing to become "dog lickers" mostly have low overall self-worth. In their subconscious, being able to win the favor of the other party is a matter of itself. It's a very happy thing, and I unknowingly lost my own principles and framework during the licking process.
Under normal circumstances, a safe and confident girl will definitely have many people around her who show kindness to her, so kneeling and licking blindly will undoubtedly push herself step by step to the backup position.
In love, you should work hard to provide rewards (such as pleasant companionship, sexual satisfaction, security and social status) to the other person, so that the other person feels that they gain more from being with you than they lose. In this way The relationship becomes stronger.
When the other person rejects you, don’t ask too many questions, don’t easily deny your own value because of others’ rejection, maintain an indifferent attitude, and don’t be a slave to your emotions.
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