Nowadays, there are more and more older leftover women in society. Media platforms such as Weibo and Zhihu are full of "marriage-fearing" remarks. Many leftover women even express that they "reject poverty alleviation" and will not give in. Various phenomena make many boys think that it is difficult to woo older leftover women. They think that they are too young but have not seen the reality clearly, and being picky is the biggest flaw. Next, let’s analyze the reasons why older leftover women are difficult to pursue!
If you don’t have a fairy destiny, you will get fairy disease
The difficulty with these older leftover women is that they are themselves Lack of awareness. She is addicted to watching dramas and comics all day long, including many concepts of female supremacy such as beauty, harem, and romance. It is easy to turn her fantasy into reality and think that she is a little fairy. The criteria for suitors are: 1.8 meters tall and a car. They have a house and good looks, are young and rich, and are domineering CEOs... Their most obvious characteristic is their natural sense of superiority. They believe that boys should serve girls. However, their own conditions are extremely poor. They are typical of those who do not have the fate of a fairy to get a fairy. sick.
The previous maker
The previous maker believes: if you have money, you must cut it off, and you should do it when you are young. Fall in love more, and when you get tired of playing, you'll end up marrying a rich man. Little did he know that he had already begun to fall in love. Because she has a lot of love experience, ordinary tricks to flirt with girls cannot stir up a ripple in her heart. She is very familiar with love words, dates, and ambiguities. If she is too lazy to talk, she will not cooperate. Cooperation is acting, so many times Her boyfriend was unknowingly labeled as her ex.
Having been in many relationships, she must have a best ex-boyfriend as her standard. Every time she falls in love, she talks about her ex and asks her boyfriend what he should do to make herself happy. Who would chase a girl who cares about her boyfriend's feelings?
Lonely patients
In this society The order requires girls to be reserved. But some girls who are lonely patients are really too reserved. They don't let strangers in and never talk to each other. In her eyes, many suitors may be labeled as "covetous for her body", so whether they are chatting or dating, they remain alert and guarded. Her heart is like a lock.
In the lost youth, the gap between her pursuer and her was shrouded layer by layer, and the boys would gradually leave in confusion and hesitation. She regarded her love as too noble, and loneliness and silence often accompanied her. The relationship between boys and her always stalls. In fact, the difficulty of pursuing such an older leftover girl lies not only in the patience of boys, but also in the wariness of girls.
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