In the eyes of most people, straight men are synonymous with low emotional intelligence. In fact, in the editor's opinion, straight men are mainly naive and lack love experience. Take praising a girl as an example:
How would a scumbag who has flirted with countless girls usually praise him?
"I don’t know why, but I often think you are special, but I can’t tell you, but I remember one time I went to the movies with you and you fed the puppy in front of the cinema. At that moment, I really felt that you were so warm.”
And what about straight men?< /p>
I remember that a senior who I had never met before suddenly said to me: "Suddenly I realized that you are very good-looking. You are one of the four most beautiful girls I know. Your appearance is I’ll give you 80 points, out of 150.”
Another example is chatting with girls:
A scumbag. I can talk about food, clothing, travel, lipstick, eyeshadow and concealer. Because of their rich love experience, they know what girls know and what topics they should not talk about when they meet for the first time.
What about straight men?
The weather is getting colder, which is a good time to care about girls, but the first thing they say is: Are you wearing long johns?
I remember a random interview on Douyin on the street:
The interviewer asked girls, do you face a straight man or a scumbag? Which one would you choose?
Most of them Girls’ answers are that they choose to fall in love with a scumbag. Then the guy said, aren't you afraid of being hurt?
The girls said, actually, it's not that they like scumbags, it may be that scumbags have richer emotional experiences and can make them happy.
I don’t know when the word straight man started to be talked about. A straight man. I can’t tell the color of lipstick, I don’t understand the purpose of cosmetics, I only use cold water to wash my face, and I don’t know anything about the variety shows that girls love to watch. What I like is machinery and science fiction. A 100-yuan skin in the game can make you happy for a long time.
It is said that men are from Mars and women are from Venus, so straight men may be meteors from a hundred thousand light-years away.
The reason why they don’t understand girls is mainly because there are differences in the thinking of boys and girls. Boys focus more on logic and methodology. When they encounter something, they are more concerned with what to do?
A girl is more concerned with her emotions and feelings at the time. When she encounters something, she wants to complain or share it with her friends and family.
Of course, even a scumbag who has a firm grasp of girls’ thinking is not able to seduce everyone, and most likely he can only seduce some relatively innocent girls.
If they meet girls who have the same emotional experience, straight men may be their first choice.
With more experience, they understand how important a sense of security is.
They don’t have to be romantic, but they can’t live without each other’s loyalty and companionship. Is being a straight man unexpectedly able to find true love for free?
Not necessarily, because most of the girls who take the initiative to find you may not really like you. It may just be that you have some value that can help her, such as your money, your connections, or some of your skills.
Falling in love is sometimes like playing a game! You like a skin because there is less game time and less gold coins. Can't afford it at all. There are two options before you now, either buy a cheap one and make do, or save gold coins for a few more months. As a consistent straight man, I definitely choose the latter.
After all, your beloved skin is as noble and important as a goddess. After waiting for several months, I finally found out which skin to buy. I added it to the shopping cart and bought it without saying a word. When I was planning to put on a show the next day, I found that Tencent’s dad was holding an event. May Day recharge discount, buy one get one free.
I remember a saying that circulated on the Internet a long time ago, if you don’t do Zhixiang, you will do Baoqiang. After experiencing the blow of buy one get one free, those who saw that the goddess they were pursuing turned out to be someone else's licking dog, never believed that time is power and companionship is the most loving farewell. Only with the ability to make money can you lead a counterattack. This becomes the story of the next scumbag.
So you see, a straight man who doesn’t fall in love is said to have low emotional intelligence. If you fall in love, you will be lied to, and then you will be told that your IQ is low. I had no choice but to choose to be a scumbag, and then I was scolded. Straight men who can survive to this day are really warriors of the 21st century, who dare to face the bleak love and face the dripping good guy card.
Actually, it’s not necessary. Those who can truly gain true love in this love world full of difficulties and challenges must be those who master core skills and are dedicated to love. You don’t have to be a scumbag, let alone a straight man.
As a straight man, the change you need to make is just to have a little more emotional knowledge reserve and understand more about girls’ thoughts, and you can still achieve the same effect of a scumbag chasing girls. Chase the girl you like.
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