I believe everyone has experienced a woman's "acting", which is pleasurable in a small way, but some excessive acting will make a man unable to stand it and end up breaking up. This is why many friends ask in private messages, why do women like to have sex? Today, the editor is here to talk to you about why women like to have sex so much. Don’t miss it.
First of all, women and men are physiologically different. In the process of natural reproduction, men are only responsible for spreading genes, while women are responsible for giving birth to children. So for women, they need to spend a lot of time with their children. And this invisibly reduces women's own labor output.
Therefore, in the long run, for women, they need to rely on men to protect their material needs. Putting your hopes on men, if things go on like this, will make women easily worry about gains and losses and lack a sense of security.
Then, because women habitually place their hopes on men for the material security they need for survival, this requires women to spend more energy to be vigilant - to be wary of problems between men and women. Ensure the stability of the partnership.
On the other hand, in human society, since the patrilineal clan replaced the matrilineal clan, women have long been influenced by the idea of ????preferring boys over girls, making them more likely to have low self-esteem, anxiety, and fear.
Therefore, in order to fully express personal charm and value, women’s emotional binding to men is intensified.
In other words: a sense of security is actually the root of everything behind a woman’s “work”.
So, what exactly is going on? Reason analysis:
First of all, women's "acting" is actually a thinking habit of dealing with problems caused by anxiety. Behind this behavior, women actually do not want or dare to express directly, but are interfering with you by focusing on various details.
Behind this behavior is actually a method commonly used in our psychology-psychological suggestion.
So what is she implying? There are two answers:
① Through repeated "doing" , to carry out continuous sexual suggestion (brainwashing you), to prove that she needs you, and to force you to compromise with him. In a woman's heart, your compromise means "you give to her because you love her."
Therefore, women often enjoy and are grateful to their partners for allowing them to "act". Because your boyfriend's indulgence will give the other person a strong sense of personal value, security, and self-esteem satisfaction.
Of course, as I said, does a woman know subconsciously that some of her behaviors are excessive?
In fact, she knows, but she just I want to prove your love for her even more.
WhenOf course, if your girlfriend is always very sensitive, and these behaviors always happen again and again, giving you a bad feeling, it is just because the other party is not very good at using this method, and it is not that she deliberately wants you to Uncomfortable.
② By repeatedly "acting", repeatedly hinting at you, and repeatedly brushing up on your presence, you can greatly relieve the other party's anxiety. Because of her behavior, you can see her existence. Let you devote some of your energy to loving her.
So now you understand, why do women like to have sex? Of course, if you give her a sense of security, the number of times she will do it will naturally decrease a lot. This is why you will see that some women are not good at it, while others are not so "easy".
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