After the first date, the next thing we need to do is to judge whether the other party likes you through subsequent interactions, so that we can seize the opportunity in time to heat up the relationship. So how to judge whether the girl likes you after the first date?
1. Frequency of chatting
After the first date, if you chat The frequency is obviously higher than before, and the other party even takes the initiative to find you a lot of times. This means that the other party is very satisfied with your date. If nothing else happens, if you go on a few more dates according to the previous rhythm, you will almost be able to establish a relationship. .
2. Do you remember what you said?
If the frequency of chatting between you is not obvious after the first date, you can pay attention to the content of the chat, for example, what you said during the date. Did she listen?
For example, during the date, you mentioned that you have been under a lot of pressure at work recently. Then after the date, your usual chat will be more concerned with her asking you "Are you busy today?"
For another example, when you are on a date, you compliment her on her dress and reveal your own preferences at the same time. After a while, if you find that the girl has adopted your advice, it will be self-evident that she likes you.
There is a saying that goes like this, "Girls like to wear skirts. You said that although skirts look good, floral skirts look better. She wears skirts for herself, and she wears floral skirts for you."
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3. Do you want to accept your next invitation?
If after the first date, a girl chats with you The frequency is about the same as before, and there's no sign that she remembers what you said. If you want to judge whether the relationship is progressing, you can find a suitable opportunity and try to directly initiate the next invitation to her.
If a girl is satisfied with your previous performance, she has no reason to refuse your next invitation.
If everything goes well, it will be fine. Next, let’s focus on what to do if things don’t go well.
If after a date, when you chat with a girl, she becomes reluctant to talk to you and her attitude towards you has completely changed, maybe there is something wrong with some aspect of the date.
First of all, you can recall the specific circumstances of your date:
Were you late on the date? Were you dressed appropriately?
The girl’s reaction after meeting How is her mood? Is she happy?
Have you tried to break the distance when you first met?
Did you encounter any unpleasantness during the date?
Did the girl show impatience at the end of the date?
How would you rate this date from 1 to 10? Don’t underestimate these details. Any of the above details can easily cause a girl to lose her favor with you in an instant.
For example, girls generally hate boys being late, but they enjoy the feeling of boys waiting for her.
I know this makes everyone upset, but in fact you don’t need to arrive too early, you just need to arrive earlier than the girls. In addition, the way you interact when you first meet will set the atmosphere and tone of the entire date.
Even if it’s your first time meeting a girl, you can still greet her like an old acquaintance or old friend.
For example, after meeting a girl, you can circle around her first, and then say a joke like "You dressed so formally because you want to go on a blind date with me?" to break the distance between the first meeting. Feeling...
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