If you have a pleasant date with a girl, then the boy will have the desire to contact the girl after the date. One is to ask the girl what she thinks of him, and the other is to strengthen contact. But wouldn’t it be bad to contact a girl right after the date? Will this cause any pressure on girls? Let’s analyze for everyone whether you should send a message to a girl after a date?
1. Take the initiative to send messages to girls after a date
If you want to continue to contact a girl after a date, then you must send a message to the girl. However, you still need to pay attention to your skills when sending messages. At the beginning, don't directly ask the girl how she feels about you, and don't ask the girl if you can continue to contact her. You can ask the girl: "Did you have fun today?" After the girl replies, You can then say: "So what do you think of me as a person?" Then ask: "Then can I continue to date you next time?"
Pay attention to the depth of your chat, which must be gradual. Rather than asking directly in one sentence, a girl actually hasn't thought about how to face you, and she may reject you in a hurry. Therefore, when you send a message to a girl, you should be tactful and give her some space to think. Also leave yourself some room.
2. Make it clear to the girl whether you like it or not
During the date, whether you like it or not No matter how satisfied the girl is, you should send a message to the girl to clearly explain your attitude towards her, and don't let the girl guess secretly. Even if you don't like her, don't keep putting it off, just in case she has feelings for you, or she thinks you also have feelings for her, but is too embarrassed to say it, so she keeps waiting. Then this will cause losses to the girl and make her wait in vain, so it doesn't matter whether you like it or not, you have to say it and don't hold it back.
If you like girls more and girls have a better impression of you, then you need to find ways to promote the relationship. Note: Expressing goodwill and liking is not a confession.
3. The girl’s attitude determines the next development
The girl’s attitude towards you after dating is very important , if the girl is as positive to you as before, and you can ask her out if you ask her out, then you can continue to actively pursue her, and while chatting, you can try to trick her and win her while the iron is hot. If a girl is indifferent to you after a date, and is hot and cold, then it is obvious that the girl does not have a good impression of you during the date. It is best to ask you if she really doesn't like you. , if you think you are not suitable, then it would be best for both of you to give up as soon as possible.
Dating is a very important step in the process of chasing girls. Boys can also do their homework before dating to avoid poor dating performance and leaving a bad impression on girls.
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